Is it normal that i only hang out with friends once every two weeks

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Sometimes I feel like an anti-social loser. I'm 19 I've been back from college for two months, and have gone out or chilled with someone only five times in two monts. It's usually a different friend each time. I know that's very little and I don't really get what's wrong with me. I switched schools when I was in 11th grade. The school I went to was extremely academically oriented so people would never hang out during the week. This also made it hard to form deep relationships since everyone else had known each other since 7th grade. I still made friends, but I never really formed a group.

This has been a problem ever since I switched schools. I was well-liked, but I never got to be too close, and all but my really good friends I keep in touch with. I also didn't get a license until after high school and I live at least 20 minutes from everyone. Still though my sisters don't have their license, but they see people like every other day.

I hung out with people almost every day in college which was cool, so now I'm seriously feeling bored. I lost my job, and now I very little to do. I don't get why I only get asked by someone to hang out like once a month. What's wrong with me? Oh and I'm hanging out with someone the day after tomorrow. I know I need to ask more, but I'm always scared of being too clingy.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    That sounds like a lot to me.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    If you want to hang out more, you should ask them. If you wait to get asked all the time, naturally you might not hang out with people as much as you want.

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  • Ozzy
    11 years ago

    i'd say thats fór ure case since your school mess you up. Though thats a really bad excuse, try having a sleep-over or something interesting with ure friends maybe u might enjoy their company a little more !

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    I so that..I am not much into hanging out with people..I do think if doing it but I am not committed to that feeling n it passes..
    I guess it has to be that your not well settled in a career so feel depressed..
    It's normal.Go out fir movies with people, it was helpful to me

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  • løvemaskin
    11 years ago

    you're not bothering someone if you see different friends. I got really bothered by someone when I was their only friend and we hung out at my place everyday, I didn't really get to be with my other friends.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago

    Just ask them! If they're really your friends, you're not bothering them. Go watch a movie or invite them over to play videogames.

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