Is it normal that i never want my boyfriend to leave?

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Is it normal that I never want my boyfriend to leave me? I never want him to go to his house with out me. I always want him to stay the night with me? I feel like I base my life off of his every move and that I don't care about myself. I am always worried that he is going to break up with me and that I am always doing something wrong. When he leaves I call him and text him 24/7 and he hates it. Sometimes when he says that he needs a break or something I don't know what to do. I really want to stop being like this because I feel like I am pushing him away. I have really never been this close anyone or felt like this towards anyone.

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  • star5
    13 years ago

    Your going to push him away by doing that. Everyone needs their own space, even you. I think this is very unhealthy possibly even a bit obsessive. You should try to focus on yourself for a little bit.

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  • Lary
    7 years ago

    I know I did this with my ex, but in reality no one can tell you what to do in this situation due to no one here has been in your relationship. What you should do is what you think you should do, not what other people tell yeah what to do.

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  • yungpwincex
    7 years ago

    Yea, u're pushing him away

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    You are pushing him away. Also, you need time for yourself and so does he. You will lose yourself in the relationship. You're already starting to. Been there. You don't want to be there. Start calling you're friends again before you lose them, too.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    Needy,obsessive and insecure worse personality trait a woman can have in a relationship

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    Not normal at all, how are you meant to miss eachother and therefore appreciate eachother? If I was with someone 24/7 I would definitely stab them in the face.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Yikes. Not normal...do you have any hobbies or interests you can pursue yourself? If not...you need to find out what YOU like and who YOU are.
    You will definitely push him away. Men think differently than we do, and they usually don't understand when we get all crazy obsessive about them, even though it's out of love. Try to separate yourself from him every so often to let yourself know you can handle being alone, and to give him some much-needed space.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I never want my boyfriend to leave either but then I'm like hey, he has a life besides me.

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  • atlantad
    13 years ago

    yes and no ... bc inever want my bf to leave either but yu gota remember he will be back . and if yu worry tht he will leave yu , its gona make him worry too , so let him know tht u love him but dont be all over him ... thats a turn off for guys .

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