Is it normal that i never want chilldren?

Two of my female friends have decided to never have children and I plan on adopting if I want a family, so I think not wanting to is normal.

Your fear of it though, is a little on the dramatic side. Is it because you feel the pressure of society to conform to the typical female desire to have babies, and you think you have to hate it all the more just to prove that you refuse to be a part of it?

I also hate children and would also want to get sterilised if given the chance. That idea of being pregnant is indeed disturbing. The labour you'll have to go through, the discipline of not eating what you want, the big belly you'll get and that pain of giving birth... plus the ugly excess skin. I mean seriously the instinct of motherhood just doesn't apply to all girls. I don't want to sacrifice and dedicate my whole life in raising a kid whom I'll feed, shelter and educate then in return will just disrespect you and whine all day.

Good luck to you I hope you won't ever get pregnant and experience being with those little sh*ts.

You are normal. I too don't want nor like kids.

This is a normal behavior in this despotic world. I thank you for the thought because I don't care for children either especially with the high divorce rate which will lead to divorce and half your stuff being taken away just because one partner wants to be a whore. Personally there should be a requirement in which to license before having children in my opinion.

SassyFrassyLassy, It does actually scare me, but it is a little because of the reason you suggested.

I understand that some people want kids, but thats their choice =]

That's normal

It is weird and not normal. This is NOT a horrible thing though! While I desire to get married and have children one day, I don't think it is wrong for you not to want to have children. Take extra precaution and don't over stress/ fear about getting pregnant. You also need to realise some people, like me feel the exact opposite and that's ok. Once you get over your fear of having children you will feel much better. Getting over your fear of having children doesn't mean having them or even wanting them, it means you stop letting the fear control you.

For me, I love the idea of having a child to call my own, but I can't stand the thought of giving birth... Heck, period pains are bad enough, every month feeling like I want to die just to put me out of my misery, it's torture... I can imagine childbirth is much much worse. I've always had this fear and is the number one reason why I will most likely never have kids. After all, who would want to push something the size of a grapefruit out of their vagina? Nope, not me, thanks.

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so normal..I dont like babies and kids.Cant stand to be next to one and most of all hate people who are pushing their little brats on me to hold &expecting from me to like them..just because Im a fem. it doesnt mean that Im a baby factory.I dont see myself with kids in the future..but all my relationships suffer because of that..dont know why men keep on insisting on having kids instead of enjoying the life without little parasites

Lol I feel the exact same way as you. I hate kids. Normal

agreed i hate children tbh i think they are little shits and this hoe thing sounds like my friend LOL!
eh i dont ever plan on having kids at all screw that i cant Imagen push it out that just freaks the fuck out of me..
and yeah i dont think you should have children
cause i think u might kill them ;D

nope, i dont want them either. they are terrible little beasts that i refuse to waste my time on. i will never have kids because where i despise them so much i know that i wouldnt be a good parent anyway. i pray that somehow i could become infertile. it would save me and the kid from having to put up with each others bs

You definitely shouldn't have kids... It's completely normal... I myself, don't plan on having any children, but if I do I'd be able to handle it. Make sure you never give yourself the possibility to be impregnated, I feel you'd hate your children.