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I met this girl on Facebook. We have been dating for 3 months and I'm madly in love with her and I want to marry her!!! Is it normal I feel this way if we have never met??
It is actually easier and quicker to fall in love with someone online because all you see is their foto and if you like the look of them and you bond over sharing information about each other it feels like you know them (but you don't) and you project your own dreams and expectations onto another person which may not necessarily be the same as what they are
meet with her and see for yourself what happens.
I fell in love madly with a guy once online and when we finally met he was still smitten with me but I was not - i did not like how he looked in real life and he was so shy it had really put me off. Otherwise, everything else about him was great. I ended up breaking his heart and he's no longer my friend which is a shame.
I still like his personality but I think it was more than that, I think it's also something to do with our pheromones clashing because the real test is when you kiss someone: if their genetics are compatible with yours you will be strongly attracted to them (yeah, i know, you're not thinking of having babies right now but we humans are programmed for that in our choice of a mate).
meet her and good luck - i hope all goes well.
Ok LunaLaFortuna you need to shut your face and think about what you are saying for a second. I realize from your story that you have tons of experience with online relationships working out... but what if this guy is really an ugly old man! This whole thing is a bad idea. The relationship needs to end before this boy gets raped!!!
i think that for some people the communication online is easier and you can learn a lot about them before you meet. it could be a solid start for the both of you. good luck
How can you be in a 'relationship' with someone you have never met? Aren't relationships ment to happen in real life? Because: like already said.. you truly will not know that person just from online.
Is it still possible to have something for eachother offline? yes, I'm pretty sure.. But, there is still that damn risk. Well, do what you feel is best. Good luck.
Of course it is normal to have feelings for someone you have met online. It's pretty easy as well.
Perfectly normal, I hang out with her everynight, she is really awesome! You will like her in person too! She does fart a lot though.
shes probably an ugly ass scumbag using a photo of a hot girl...
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believe me it so normal because it happend to me i met a guy on facebook two months ago and i am crazy about him all the time i think about him every day i love him more and more i know it is not logical but this is the way it is
U love the idea of her but darn u need to meet her before u can say i like u a lot or even love u.
You should be careful. People on line lie about themselves a lot. Even if they dont, they can totally disappoint you by being different in real life
Well yes, nowadays stuff like this is normal however your feelings for her are not. You have to make sure you meet her in person because that's where you truly show your love for one another & that's when you truly see each others flaw. I was long distance with my bf for our first 4 months & wow everything was bliss long distance. However when he got here it was still beautiful & lovely until our 4 month with each other in person lol. Trust me no one or nothing is perfect. You will truly get to know someone once you have lived with that person physically.
I think its easier to meet someone compatible to you. You don't have the whole stress of going up to a random stranger and try to engage conversation. Also you learn more about the person's personality over just wanting to have sex with them the first night. Although lots of things are bad with it, like the person can lie easily about everything and use you. I think it's normal and when you guys are ready to meet, that's when you'll know if your feelings were right or not.
Is this a joke? Imagine if he finds out his 'girlfriend' is a fat, hairy old man or something...
The thing is... how you act online may not be the same way you act in person.
On a mild level it may mean that she has habits you don't know about - habits you dislike.
On a stronger level it can end up that she's nothing what she claimed to be. People lie. And online people lie a lot - about age, gender, weight. And sometimes even if they're honest about how they look, they might turn out to be someone with sick intentions (rape, robbery)
WTF why do soooo many people have no life that the have gf and bf on facebook and xbox live