Is it normal that i never hang out with friends?

Now I don't really mind it honestly. I enjoy being alone most of the time not having to put up with everyone's crap and all that jazz but it seems like I'm the only one who doesn't hang out with friends. I mean when I get on my facebook and etc it always seems like all my friends have better social lives than me. They'll have pictures of them with their friends, post something in their status about how much of a good time they had with their friends and so on. It makes me feel lonely sometimes. I mean of course I want to have friends to share the good times with too but it seems like I can't find any that are worth a damn. The ones I've had always end up abandoning me. Maybe they think I'm boring or scared of them since I use to be extremely shy as a kid? IDK I'm a 23 year old male, high school graduate, lives with his parents and no job. So, it's quite obvious that I don't have much of a social life. Most of my daily routine is at home being on the computer, watching tv, playing video games, drawing, reading, guitar and pretty much anything that keeps me saine. I have two brothers who are in their 20's and are also living at home but unlike me they have jobs and always hang out with their friends. Of course I try to get out once in a while and go for walks when the weather is nice and all that but I'm usually alone or with my family when I go out to do stuff. I don't plan on going to college and I've been trying hard to find a job but I'm not having any luck. I applied at every place that I can imagine but nobody wants to hire me. I don't see why anyone wouldn't want to hire someone like me. I'm smart, dependable, honest, and fun to be with (well depending who you are..lolz) Granted, I lack seniority and experience but how am I suppose to get that if I don't get hired? Well, I digress. My older brother on the other hand is the only one I actually enjoy hanging with. I would say that he's my best friend as gay as that might sound..harhar.. but yeah, that's me. So, I'm curious. How many people are like this?

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  • BrainsRrust

    Maybe your just too weird to have friends. lolz IDK.. I kinda have that problem. It seems like everyone is just different compared to me and have no interest in me at all. I'll appear interesting to them at first and then find out that I'm boring or weird. Have you tried making friends online? There's bound to be hundreds of people willing to be friends with you that are also into the same things you are. If your into video games like me then there's oodles of online games and websites with a strong network of awesome people.

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  • I have lots of people that like me and want to hang out with me, but most of them aren't worth a damn. I'll hang out with a select few, but the majority of people are idiots.

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  • hokisgurl

    That's my life too I'm a loner my family are my social life and few co workers

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  • appletea1991

    Thats me! I never hang with anyone, the only friends I have is my bf my sis and granny :)

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  • Faceless

    I went to work today, got a tractor stuck in mud, came home, drank a coffee, then a slurpee, watched my roommates dogs wrestle, then watched my roommate play video games. That coffee was the highlight of my day. In other words, cheer up.

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  • Jun-chan

    That is so me! I always feel left out. Everyone seems to have cool things to do, but all I did today was play Pokemon and watch tv. Totally normal.

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