Is it normal that i never had a boyfriend at 19, almost 20?

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So im 19 and I will be 20 soon. I have a few guy friends but I never had a boyfriend. Ive never been kissed, im a virgin, and Ive never been on a date before. I am on the chubby side but I always try to look my best. My family, close, friends and other people say that I am very beautiful and pretty. Ive even had people come up to me and say that I have a beautiful smile. I just dont want people to think that I am weird because I never had a boyfriend, at times it does bother me but im focusing on college and trying to make myself a better person. My worse fear is that I will never find true love. I dont mind waiting for the right guy but I just dont want to get too comfortable with being single and before I know it im 30 and still single. I also plan on losing weight and I will be moving out of state soon for college. I hope and pray that I find someone when I go away. But is it normal that im 19 almost 20 and never had a boyfriend? Please help and I dont mind honest answers. Thanks guys. Also if you have a story similar to mine or if you know of someone who's story is similar please share with me, thank you.

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  • chicken471bologna
    11 years ago

    Why don't type in "IIN I have never had a boyfriend" into the search bar and find out?

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    • losthere
      11 years ago

      Do you mean the search bar above?? I've never used it before and forget about it lol

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    • KeddersPrincess
      11 years ago

      Thank you for this answer! :)

      OP, do what he^ says.

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    • Issa_bell
      11 years ago

      Thank you, and I have but I thought that my situation is different because im almost 20. It seems most of the questions that are similar to mines are with little 14 to 15 year olds. Im practically a young adult.

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      • disthing
        11 years ago

        That's not true at all, look properly. The majority of people asking are between 18 and 25. Your situation is actually pretty common.

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  • WasThatAMoth
    11 years ago

    Don't worry. Since you're headed to college, I'm pretty sure you'll find someone. Just don't get anxious to have a boyfriend. The time will come.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    It only has to happen once. You will probably meet someone at college.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    some guys don't deserve girlfriends, or you?

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  • losthere
    11 years ago

    I'm an 18 almost 19 and never had a bf either, mostly cause I don't want one and am not looking for a relationship. I'm also a virgin and have never kissed. So you are not the only one out there, sometimes it bothers me as well, as I feel I should have dated by now as people think i'm weird if I don't or haven't had a bf before. Honestly I don't see the point in dating and am much happier doing what I want at the moment. Hope my little story helps :)

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    If you're pretty then drop the weight and you'll find definitely find someone.

    I remember this nerdy girl in school, I knew her since grade 5, she was fat and used to compete with me for top grades in class, we were considered the smartest-but I was also athletic, so I was well rounded-not nerdy and was popular.

    Anyways, in grade 12 she lost the weight and looked amazing. She's not a hottie, but got cute enough that plenty of guys wanted to date her. I was happy for her.

    I always find it sad when I see a fat girl with a beautiful face. I don't care what anyone says, the truth is that our culture worships beauty, so if you have it, then take full advantage.

    Life is short, trust me the years fly by so get fit now so you don't regret missing out.

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  • nelly96
    11 years ago

    Im a few months off your age and I've never had a boyfriend either so it's normal. The only thing, not that it's not normal because it most definitely is, is the fact that I don't personally know anyone around our age who's never been kissed.

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  • littlepanda
    11 years ago

    I am 19 and I never dated anyone before. You are not alone, it is normal. :)

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    I'm 18 almost 19 and have never dated anyone either
    I've only kissed my bestfriend buy I have no feelings towards them so it really doesn't mean that much

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Oh I'm sure you will find someone special if that is what you want.

    And you sure have a lot going for you from what you say!

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  • q25t
    11 years ago

    Well I'm 20 and haven't had a girlfriend. It doesn't really bother me though.

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  • reno93
    11 years ago

    Okay I have dated a lot but I have this ant named magen we usex to just joke around and say you will never date and akl cause school was everytbing she is pretty and she stopped trying theb next thing the year we graduate she finds this guy and they are still together he makes hwr kaugh and all and now hwr and him has made me a cussin and a god father as well so just waut love will come and its not weird i oromise

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