Is it normal that i never get asked out and

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I don't know you, I can't answer this question. But!, I will say this "fortune favors the brave". If you see someone you want take a chance. No prince charming is going to ride in on a white horse and take you away.

Sorry that you'll disagree but no one's out of my league. I'm not an unattractive girl and the guys that message me are not my type not just in terms of looks. Yeah, looks do matter to me to a certain extent and yeah, I'm not attracted to some but who's to say they are "average" looking or not or to say someone is or isn't in someone's "league"? It's just my opinion that they are not that attractive TO ME. I know that's what I said above but I guess it's wrong to label people like that. Maybe to another girl they are hot! Anyways, like I mentioned, guys that I am attracted to have talked to me before and I have been told I'm pretty (by girls and guys I find to be attractive) so it's not to say that anyone is "out of my league". What is comes down to is people are attracted to different things and also I haven't gone out much. Anyways, I myself tend not to be attracted to really obese people guys, guys have no career goals (though yeah, I myself am seeking a career. The point is I am looking), maybe a guy who's into motorcycles, and more. Yeah, I do look at the face too and I'm not attracted to some though if we met and they were cool, maybe I would give them a shot! Often the way they look at least dress and carry themselves can go in line with their personality and hence, I feel like I can tell if they and I are not exactly going to click (though of course, I can't get it right every time). I myself am average in terms of weight and I know I'm cute so whatever! My biggest selling point though is not my looks but my PERSONALITY and the morals and goals I live by. Hence, I just question why more guys on online dating sites and perhaps in real life won't give me a shot. Btw, a guy at work who's attractive just gave me his number last week so again, I wouldn't necessarily say it's cause I'm unattractive period. Again, maybe for one reason or another, some guys are not attracted to me. That doesn't mean I am ugly/unattractive. And yes, though I know personality is most important to me and others, I also realize that realistically, physical attraction is important to a certain extent to most people. Chemistry has to be there

A lot of guys perhaps won't or aren't attracted to me and if that's what you call being "out of someone's league" than so be it! It doesn't I think mean I am any less attractive than I am and that hot guys or guys I'm attracted to won't find me attractive. I've gotten told by some that I'm not that attractive (compared to "really pretty girls") and I've gotten told that I'm pretty/hot. It just proves that beauty can be in the eye of the beholder. Of course we are all beautiful in our own way but realistically, people will find diff things attractive. That's why I am confused though why I don't really get asked out much including on the web. For one, I don't go out much. I attend Bible studies and that's it. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone there at church but so far, nothing! I'll just keep hoping while keeping my standards moderate and realistic if that's the word. We all know anything can happen cause my dad has said himself that he's not that attractive but he met my mom who basically looked like perfection (no such thing exists but you know what I mean)! There have been those who questioned why my mom married my dad but what it comes down to it is, there's nothing wrong or odd about it and my parents found one another attractive in one way or another. To me a relationship is a big deal and though yeah, I've been alone for a LONG while, I don't want to just get together with any old dude. I want to meet someone who's personality I am attracted to, who is Christian, and who yes, I have physical chemistry with as well!! My standards are really not that high either. Like some have suggested, I have lowered my standards compared to the past. Perhaps realistically I won't get asked out by at least with online dating by guys I see as hot and that does bother me. I won't wait around for Mr. Perfect yet if I find a guy that I am somewhat attracted to physically and has whatever else that I'm looking for then, I'll try to make it work! I wish guys I'm somewhat attracted to at least will give me a chance.

Idk maybe lower your standards slightly see what happens. Also I say go for it and start asking guys out...all that can really happen is they say no...but thats not a big deal your just not their type. Move on to the next one until u find one that's interested in you.
I dont think love can be rushed and it will come along at its own pace and im sure you will find someone.

maybe you talk too much?? i didn't read your other post. i started, but saw how long it was and what i had read didn't hold my interest. just get to the point already.

I'm sorry I guess I didn't exactly word my initial question in the best way. I'm not just looking for a "hot" guy. I am looking for a guy I am at least somewhat attracted to both in terms of looks and personality. I am most importantly looking for a devoted, Christian guy who lives with morals. A guy who is driven and goal-oriented (has career goals) is also important.

No offense OP, but you seem like another person that's chasing what's out of their league. Perhaps you should lower your standards a bit and see what happens. You just might meet someone amazing by doing so.

Most people never find a compatible life partner yet most people focus their lives around something that may never be obtainable only to be disappointed when they do. When we learn to enjoy our own company we can find the best relationships with ourselves.

You sound like an intelligent woman. What exactly is your "type"?