Is it normal that i my bf wants me to have red hair?

I don't think I really want red hair, but I do like it. Its just that my bf is always telling me how he fancies women with red hair and always gone out with red haired women till he met me.

He has even said about me dying my hair and because of what he says, he makes me wish I had red hair. But I don't know if I should dye it or not.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • AmvEditor

    Is it normal that i find this story stupid?

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    • chewy

      a 100% normal

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  • SweetSherry

    He clearly has a fetish for red heads; however the decision is yours, don't be pressured into something you don't want to. He should be into you for who are and not try to change you.

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  • libertymoonbeam

    Well, he is attracted to you, but also attraced to red heads, so yeah its normal some people r just attraced to people with certian looks.

    But i would be mad at my bf if he wanted me to dye my hair cause he didnt like my hair color.

    Once i had a bf who told me never to cut my hair and grow it really long, cause my hair was sholder lenght, and how he always dated people with long, hair, but i thought he was kinda weird.

    So kinda, it normal in some ways, and not in others. :I

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  • dappled

    He's not going out with a red-haired version of you, though. He's going out with the actual you. If that isn't what he wants, he shouldn't be pressing upon you to change. What will he have you doing next?

    Dye your hair red if you want to, but don't if you don't. It's up to you, not him.

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  • Kristy36

    I dont think any girl that wants a guy to love her should change her look for a guy period she will end up regreting it.

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  • lovelylipzzz

    I have red hair too an have3yrs i likw it bur ..yhh it does across as horntfyd
    ..if u dont want to Donr let ANYINE FORCE YOU xx

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  • GinnyWeasley

    I have red hair and I dye it blonde. Go figure

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  • emilydoll

    That's wierd to me kind of. I'd be pissed.

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  • He's pretty much forcing you to do it at this point. What if you found lip piercings very attractive and bought him one and keep saying to him to get it done? Would he do it for you? It goes both ways.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Im with dappled. Its up to you whether you want to dye it or not. And he really shouldn't want you to change anyway.

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