Is it normal that i miscarry a lot

I'm only 21 but I'm way more mature than most my age due to my upbringing. So of course it's most girls dreams to have kids. Well since this past December I miscarried 4 times!! 3 in the last 3 months. Is that normal to have high miscarriages like that? Will I ever have my own child?

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Based on 24 votes (4 yes)
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  • fullhouse

    Are you sure you miscarried 3 times in months ? You hve to wait 3 months after first miscarriage and try again..
    I doubt you concieved in 3 months 3 times.
    P.S- I am a doctor doing internship.

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    • dirtybirdy

      I wondered that myself but I had a friend who got pregnant so often I thought perhaps it was possible. But she was a dirtbag so.....different story.

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  • You claim to be mature, yet you are trying for a child before you're at an age where you have a stable working condition that works for the child aswell?

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  • dirtybirdy

    Your body is telling you something. Why not adopt instead.

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  • HotnAdorable20

    Dam phone. I understand it's unbelievable to some, but I do know the difference.

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    I und

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    3 times in 3 months? That's called your period.

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  • Iloveguysabs

    My mom had 6 miss carriages before having me so don't give up take a little time.. It might be the guy.. There is something wrong with the embryo so ur body flushes it out.. Keep trying and just relax

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  • HotnAdorable20

    Unimportant suits you. Thanks. I know who I am. A strong young woman who has overcame the worst one should ever go through. Thanks for the comments and info and support everyone.

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  • VioletTrees

    Get off the internet and see a doctor.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    I don't know in all honesty. I am 18 and have been pregnant twice (not planned) and both ended by miscarriage. I know deep down it's for the best but not a day goes by where I have a niggling thought in my head wondering what the hell is wrong with me, since 18 is supposed to be the height of your fertility.
    I think you have to remember you are still young. You still have bags of time. I personally know a woman who miscarried for no reason 8 times until she had her first healthy pregnancy. You hear about women like this all the time. Counselling sessions helped me a lot to come to terms with my miscarriages.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    Having a miscarriage is a lot like giving birth. Your body goes through a lot of trauma. You need to allow AT LEAST 6 weeks to heal and begin trying again. I've read that you should weight even longer than 6 weeks after a miscarriage because it's even rougher on your body.

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  • CheyChey

    The thing with miscarriages is that it simply wasn't meant to be even of you had carried those pregnancies to term something just wasn't right. When you want something so bad and you try with all your might you usually don't get it. Trying to relax is key let nature take it's course you're young miscarriages are high with first pregnancies. There is technology these days and there is loads they can do to help you, I don't have a degree of any sort but you will have your own child one day have fun trying. All the best

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  • howaminotmyself

    3 in 3 months is a little hard to believe. You need a blood test to discover a pregnancy at that early of a stage. Whoever ordered that test should be asking for others to discover why your miscarriages look like a normal cycle.

    I am sorry for the pain. I've had my fair share of miscarriages and the reality is, most women have them. And many more have them without knowing they had one. You are young and have plenty of time to figure out what your body is doing.

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  • dappled

    My grandma miscarried seven times over the five or six years after my mother's birth. Then she carried my aunt to full-term. It was only six months before my granddad died so it was kind of seen as a sign or some heavenly concession to my grandmother before a huge loss. For that reason, my aunt was always known as "the little miracle".

    So, yes, it is possible. But these days, reproductive science has moved on immensely and it would definitely be worth consulting an expert to see how you can improve your prospects.

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  • HotnAdorable20

    It is possible and yes it's happened. Your body is fertile right away. But of course with the first I'm assuming my body just wasn't fully recovered to carry the others.

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  • HotnAdorable20

    I want my own. I want that life experience. I've seriously been through hell my whole life and if I have to suffer even more it would kill me. All I've ever wanted is to have my own family and to be with them something I've never had.

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    • dirtybirdy

      That's understandable but if you've miscarried that many times, you may want to give it a rest. Your body can only handle so much. And often times it seems like the ones who can't have their own kids want them the most. That sucks. Would you ever consider adopting? There are soooooooo many kids who need a home :(

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  • charli.m

    I'm so sorry to hear about your losses.

    Unfortunately, it can happen for many reasons. Go to your gyno and they will be able to tell you what your options are from here.

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