Is it normal that i might be sexually atracted to my best friend?

I am a girl. My best friend is a girl. We hang out a lot and are REALLY close. Like sisters. You know, the steriotypical BFFs. I have heard that when you are our age best friends tend to eperiment in lesbianism. I have never done it. I have a boy friend who I love but recently when I am plessuring myself, I find that I think of her. I think its just curiosity of never making out before and her being a perfect person to try it with. But im not sure.......is this nornal?

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  • buffy55

    I would never actually make out with her....the thought just turns me on. But im not lesbian so actually making out with her would be wierd. Im 14..........IIN?!

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  • TVDFan(

    Of course. Just don't go with it. But you can think about it. It's always normal for your mind to think about it, it's the actually acting it out that isn't

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    • JustCHELlin246

      I agree. I am also a girl having some thoughts like this. I think its hormones and everything. I really don't want to act on them though, I know things would just be weird...

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  • I think that you,shouldn't tell her anything about how you,feel about her,sometimes this could break-up a relationship and I really dont think that you,would like to lose this girl friend of yours.Just let it happen.

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  • Energy

    Yeah, it's normal.

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  • Runaway

    Totally normal, I have the same feelings.. though you should really think long and hard to see if telling her is worth risking your friendship. But if it is, or you think she'd be okay with it... go with your heart:)

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  • dtf

    Normal, try it out with her would be mad hot

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  • Anonypoo

    I had many sleepovers with my best friend. And I was very attracted to her. So once she left the room to go to the bathroom and I started changing my clothes. When she walked in, I was naked and pretended to be embarrassed. She immediately got wet and looked away, so I knew she was feeling something.

    When we were in bed later, (I had a trundle bed) we somehow ended up in the same bed. We played truth or dare and I dared her to kiss me. She had planned on doing just a little peck, but we both got turned on and stripped.

    We spent the whole night touching eachother and kissing. We are engaged now, 3 years later :)

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  • averageman

    TOTALLY NORMAL! infact when i was in high school i had a few friends, they were all girls, about 4 of them, who all had sex on a regular basis. hormones is all.

    If you act, you could have some very positive sexual experiences

    If you don't she might feel uncomfortable and not speak to you for a bit.

    My reccomentation is that you try to kiss her when youre drunk or something. If she turns you down you can always blame the drink! foolproof. your welcome!

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  • mikel

    i had a threesome with two lesbians once and it was fantastic so my earlier comment was me being angry at these people who cant figure out there sexuality

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  • Moiralligence

    I know exactly how you feel; the same thing has happened to me with my closest friend. I told her and she was fine with it, but unless you're sure your friend will be too I wouldn't mention it unless you feel it absolutely necessary.

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  • Koda

    A female friend I have told me she used to fantasize about her sister having a penis... So anything's possible.

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  • YourHighnezz

    Been there. It happened and we are still best friends :)

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  • Antidaeophobia

    Yes it's normal. Sexuality isn't a matter of black and white, one or the other. Having homosexual thoughts for someone you care about is perfectly natural for all people, including men. If you are feeling homosexual feelings other times or for other people, you might be bisexual.

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  • DeathNule:(

    It's human nature!

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  • OliverMae

    Give it a go, my friend.

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  • elephantjuice

    thats cool its perfectly natural every human being is curious. your just curious about other chicks im sure your boyfriend would be well happy with a 3 way ;) just kidding. sort of

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  • 4theloveofdez

    To be honest I've had those feelings growing up. My close girl friends and I would actually show one another our body parts but we never actually would touch, although the temptation was there. I just loved seeing them lift their shirts up or pulling down their pants.

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  • countrybumkin

    life is one long experiment give it a go

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  • nobodyspecial

    Ditto

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  • ronpaul4prez

    How old r u

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  • mikel

    Yes it is normal. IF YOUR A FUCKING RETARD!!!!!!
    You said you loved your boyfriend which is normal but if you've got such a good boyfriend than why would you want to fuck your friend who is also a girl. Its either your a lesbian or that you need a boyfriend who your more sexuall

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    • -y attracted to. Sorry I just had the urge of finishing your sentence. :p

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    • Moiralligence

      No need to be rude. And as been said before, sexuality isn't as simple as that. You can't just go around saying people are lesbian because they've had homosexual thoughts or fantasies.

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