Is it normal that i might be in love with two girls?

I have been in a great relationship with my current girlfriend for about four years now, and we have lived together for over two years. Everything used to be great, and I felt special everytime I woke up next to her.

However, recently I have met another girl and even though she is the complete opposite of my girlfriend I am extremely attracted to her.

My girlfriend is a smart, independent, educated and succesful business woman with dark eyes and hair (which is what I am usually into, since I am not looking for a woman to take care of but a woman that challenges me). But this other girl is a blonde that comes across as caring, loving and sweet.

Myself and the blonde have been spending a lot of time together, and even though we are both in a serious relationship it is obvious that there is a lot of chemistry between us.

Appearance wise they are both incredibly attractive compared to me. And to be perfectly honest, I would like to mention that I am not a very attractive guy, I work out a lot and am very fit, but my (lack of) hair and my not very manly facial features (I have a very round head and small eyes to match) generally do not make me eye-candy to most women.

At this point I am just confused about the whole thing. I have come up with a number of scenario's which to me all seem plausible and I would like to know which one suits my situation the best.

Your current relationship is obviously not fulfilling 6
U are using the interest the other woman is showing to boost your ego 5
U are just infatuated with two girls, this is common 15
U just want to get laid and should not over-think it 5
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Comments ( 4 )
  • PapzBSlim

    Cannot fix anything that is not broke. Stay with your current girlfriend and ask her if you guys can spice things up a bit so you can feel special again. Do not ruin your relationship and the blonde's relationship because of lust. In life, even being completely happy with your wife/husband, you will always see other attractive people in the world, but you should not act on them.

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    • dude_Jones

      Well said, SlimB. How about roses and a tub bath by candlelight?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Life gives you obstacles. Realtionships are FULL of obstacles. It's how you handle those obsticals that decides what kind of person you are.

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