Is it normal that i masturbate while in a relationship?

Is is normal that I masturbate even though I'm in a committed relationship?

I'm a college student and we go to school together but we're both really busy so we don't get as much time together as we'd like. She gets upset when I do it because she feels like I'm in some crazy way, almost cheating on her. She feels like I'd rather look at the girls in the porn than her.

Am I doing anything wrong here?

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88% Normal
Based on 24 votes (21 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • Normallyabnormal

    I don't do it because I've never been a fan, but my boyfriend does and I'm perfectly fine with it. Maybe because I grew up with a lot of guy friends and understand that you men need your alone time.

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  • tomcat1974

    Completely normal..I've been married for 10 years and I still do it. Sometimes she even helps me by giving me oral sex and me masturbating...when she isn't at home I do it. She says that sometimes she does it too. Is rather her do that than to cheat on me. Talk to her. At least ur not cheating on her. She should b happy and support u

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  • aussiewolf

    yes its normal. i am married and a girl and i still do it. actually i do it more often than my husband does. i find it healthy to have a sexual relationship with yourself and with your partner. you need that alone time to miss your partner if you know what i mean.

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    It's normal. A lot of guys do it. Maybe you could try doing it while looking at pictures of your gf. She would probably be ok with it then.

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  • 8Serene8

    Well I don't know any woman that likes it when their man dies it without them. But if you don't see eachother enough for her to help with it then she has to deal with you doing that.

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