Is it normal that i make sure my ex-boyfriend to keep on liking me?
i have had a relationship before, but it just last for a couple of weeks.my ex-boyfriend and i were once classmates for 2 years and he has been liking me for about 2-3 years(or so he said).we message a lot and after a while we started to became an item (i'm the one who started it) i felt really excited since it was my first time having a boyfriend but the excitement only last for couple of days.
even when he done what i think most all the (perfect) bf would do like buy present, sweet talks and all,i am still feeling bored with the relationship and so i broke it off(he cried and i felt really guilty)
Like before, we keep on messaging each other (i still want to be his friend) but it is awkward and not as often as before.and i started to like someone else.
But when he got another girl in his life,weird things happens. i started to gives my attention more to him and convince myself that he'll always like me all his life. i'll try to talk with him more and messaging him more often. then when he started to show his interest back to me,i reminded him that he already got a girlfriend.and then i'll do it all over again. sometimes i felt like i'm being selfish or controlling him but i can't help it and i can't stop it.
should i get back to him? do i need help or what should i do?