Is it normal that i make people fall in love with me for attention

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Ok so I know this is horrible but I think I'm addicted to the chase. I fall so deeply into a relationship and Ive had lots of boyfriends who tell me they love me and want to be with me forever. Once I know that I have them on a string I start to nor like them anymore. I start to notice flaws and I break up with them. Leaving them heartbroken. I hate this so much I don't know why I do it over and over again. I like myself and I like the way I look. Why do I need this sick validation?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm sorry you're getting so many hate comments. But these guys do have their point. And unfortunately, I believe it IS normal... But I hope you do get that right guy for you. If you keep this BS going, you're gonna lose him forever. Hopefully you haven't already. Goodluck.

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  • secrettellings
    13 years ago

    hmm...thats not good. u should actually date someone u care about..not just for attention. i mean how are u ever going to have a real relationship?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Id inject every bad std into you while you sleep.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'd have you gassed and burned in to fine ash.

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  • babyface1993
    8 years ago

    Hey look don't worry about these comments they probably had they're heart broken too. You understand you. & I feel you I'm the same exact way. I was deeply in love one time only in my life after that for some reason I always find myself comparing which I shouldn't but I do it anyways and it sucks. I don't go out looking to fuck them over.. I go out looking for my own happiness again. And the trick to it is just staying alone. That way you recognize who it is you are and what you want out of life. For now just lay low, things will get better. Try to pick and choose better and if there's nothing better than don't choose anything and don't listen to these people it's not the end if the world.....

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    reminds me of myself a lil bit, when they guys (that im not interested in) text me , i just like to pull them back, i mean, im strating to be lil bit rude, tell that he dont have a chance etc, im very talkative person, and i text them back (usually) but it often ends up like i break up guys feelings and thoughts, sorry guys for being a b!tch ;/

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  • I'd-rather-not-say
    13 years ago

    Ya it's normal but it's still a nasty mean thing to do that just sadistic ur not giving them a chance ur entering the relationship knowing it's not gonna last ur a horrible person

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    omg thats horrible! but still funny as fuck ur my new best friend :D

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  • big.z
    13 years ago

    AMEN ITDUZ aha finally someone got it right . Sometimes it's even funnier knowing a girl is doing this kinda shit and fucking them over too

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  • Mellox
    13 years ago

    Don't worry, OP, I can kinda relate :) Although I try to stop leading them on as soon as I realize I'm not attracted, rather than continue to make myself feel good.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    Thats not good, seriously. You can change your behavior. You're making people suffer. You can't be serious... Come on...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    U have some deep inscurites

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You ruin good people

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    lol im sorry but u do relise when guys say i love you they most of the time dont and just want sex so dont think your so special hun they fed u false attention u are the one that got played by all the people u think fell in love with you lol

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    • Mr.Computer
      8 years ago

      Exactly. You got it right dude.

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