Is it normal that i'm upset a guy won't make sexual advances?

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So I met a guy a little while ago. He's really sweet and we're flirting a bit. I like it, but is it normal that I'm actually upset that he hasn't made any more SEXUAL advances towards me? He won't even say anything when I use sexual inuendo. I guess I appreciate how sweet and respectful he is, but I was kind of hoping he'd make some sexual advances.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Or maybe he doesn't want to scare you off & make you think hes a pig cause he likes you & wouldn't want to ruin the opportunity. If sexual talk is what you want to bring up then tell him straight out 'if he feels comfortable with the situation. [:

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  • imacomputer
    12 years ago | pl

    You are probably giving him mixed signals like most girls do.

    I will admit though that guys can be clueless about "signals" girls give off a lot of times.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Sext him a picture of your yum-yum, to give him a subtle hint

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    He may be interested but too shy or inhibited to make any sexual advances.
    To be honest it sounds like me. If I was in his situation I think I would be too nervous to do anything.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    I prefer a guy thats shy like that! its so fun to provoke him and ever so slightly brush up against his penis and seduce him, bend over in front of him, rubbing my ass and then sucking my finger, playfully seduce him and notice his bulging boner and then start touching and rubbing it... this is just me.. lol an example of something id do bcuz im older and at my sexual peak. its fun to be saucy and horny like that and blow a mans mind!

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    • regisphilbin
      8 years ago

      damn that turned me on

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    • Bumholelover
      11 years ago

      please do that to me, im so horny after reading that.

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      • pixie_dust
        11 years ago

        What is your geographical location?

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  • abba774
    12 years ago

    start to play with him slowly that is rough play. And then start romancing him slowly

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Women *shakes head*

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  • WhiteSheepOfTheFamily
    12 years ago

    Rape him!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Remember every guy naturally has a sex drive.. It's in there testosterone :p aha

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  • 41ph4m413
    12 years ago

    Either stick your hand down his pants or quit trying to get some from this dickless wuss and find a real man.

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    • black_sheep123
      12 years ago

      as a guy, that reaky made me laugh.

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      • Jrody
        12 years ago

        I reaky like your comment

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        • black_sheep123
          12 years ago

          haha why thank you vetry much ;P

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He's probablly gay.

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  • nutmeg<3
    12 years ago

    well hes not intrested

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    Shy guys tend to need very strong hints...literally to get the picture. Not all of them make the first move either. Or he could just not be that into you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe he's shy? Maybe he doesn't want sex with you? Who knows. Figure it out.

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  • hamsterdanzer
    12 years ago

    He might be really clueless, or very shy. If you want to do it, do it, and don't wait for him to initiate.

    Can't blame him for not taking the intiative, if you don't either.

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  • yotaisgame1
    12 years ago

    I could be the guy your talking about. Maybe its i dont feel like your into me that way and am afraid to go for broke. If there was more hints and clues that you would except my advances i would go for it

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  • SoCal
    12 years ago

    he's either not attracted to you or he's a virgin and doesn't know how to go about it.

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