Is it normal that i'm trying to get away from my friend

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My friend she's always in my space, I am actually very good at making friends but every time I come around her my confidence level goes very low and I feel like a loner. I am trying to get away from her im going to a different High school but she decided she would come too because of her disabilatee. She has something wrong with her arm and leg. She is weird and I feel totally lesbian around her, shes really emotional and ive spent 3 years with her and im kinda just over it by know. Is it normal that I might be horrible? Or is it not normal because I am horrible and im trying to get away from her without causing trouble.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Why do you feel "totally lesbian?" What does that mean or what do you mean by that?

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  • Pika-girl
    10 years ago

    Same here. But my friend just says if she could have my stuff to borrow. Then the next day, she would say that she lost it. People say im too soft and nice, so somehow, I cant say no to her...

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Get some activities for yourself that you like or love but you know she's not into. Maybe do something athletic. Also try to bring yourself to tell her you need some space.

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  • college
    10 years ago

    It's normal to want to get away from an unhealthy friendship. It sounds like she's a decent person, just not healthy for you. If she can handle it, I'd say go ahead and have this conversation with her, if not, I would continue to create distance between the two of you. Push comes to shove, you might have to be blunt...but not rude.

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