Is it normal that i'm trying hard to friendzone this guy?
Okay, I know a lot of the guys are going to start hating since the title, how ever let me explain.
For the past well, maybe one or two years I've been wanting a boyfriend. Or anyway someone, I don't care if it's boy or girl, but someone in real life(I've dated on line before, and I am now. I'm not looking to cheat I just mean in the future) And so, finally along came a guy who ended up liking me.
He's not a bad guy or anything. .irs simply that I don't like him.
I'm completely aware of his feelings, I have been for maybe two years? Rather I suspected and found out Friday.
For the what, two Ish years that I've known him I've practically in a sense have been trying to friend zone him.
I know I said that I wanted a Boyfriend, but this guy is just pathetic honestly. I'll get the most shallow things out of the way. He's quite short, I mean he's taller than me but barely, I'm 5'4 and a half, and he's maybe 5'5, I have always been the type to like taller men. But it's not even the height or physical features that bugs me. It's his personality, and how he thinks.
He's very awkward, not even in the cute way, like you can't joke around with him that much. Honestly his humor is just. . Ugh. And I'm the type of person who likes to laugh and smile.
Then there's what bugs me the most, he has no motivation, for anything. He doesn't care about how he looks, or about his grades in school. I mean I know I am not the perfect student, how ever he is just Too lazy to care. As far as I can tell he had no motivation what so ever, to anything. I mean he doesn't want to go to college, he doesnt seemto have any goals. I mean when I look around my friend group were all different.
My best friend wants to be an entomologist
My friend jacob wants to be a author
My friend savannah wants go be something dealing with medicine
My friend Chris at least has a passion for weight training.
And even I have a dream of going to art school and becoming an author as well.
But then we have him,
Nothing. Simply. Nothing.
As harsh as it is, I feel like he's a loser. I guess something happened when he was little but I don't believe that's a reason to be that way(I have a friend who was molested, almost raped several times and abused and still is being abused and she is still at least trying to be positive about the future) maybe its cause I'm seeing this through my perspective and not his, it's just it's completely I attractive from my opinion. Also, a few other things, I always feel like he's staring at me. .like I can't feel comfortable any where around him, even in class. Maybe I'm just getting weird but this is how I feel. And I already know a lot of people are going to call me shallow, but from your perspective(put yourself in my position) do you think my opinion/ideals are normal, or am I just shallow as a puddle?/weird?