Is it normal that i'm tomboy and i hate lesbians?

I've been a tomboy ever since I was a toddler. I'm 20 now and still wear those baggy pants, tees, no pink, boys sneakers, I have messy Slash hair, and I don't study a feminine profession or any of that. Since I was 11 (yes eleven), lesbians have been trying to get me into some relationship thinking I'm lesbian too. I am completely heterosexual. I have a boyfriend, I have sexual emotions only towards men. I could NEVER imagine kissing, marrying, or having any romantic contact with a woman.
I just have to hate lesbians for this. They think I'm lesbian too and EVERY SINGLE ONE tries to get my attention. I am sorry if this is offending you. If your a nice lesbian and you stick with your LESBIAN GIRLFRIENDS and only have relationships with your LESBIAN GIRLFRIENDS I would be happy.
I don't want to kill a lesbian who just looks at me or talks to me. I just hate it when lesbians ask me if they wanna "HAVE IT" when they don't even know me and their ussuming I'm a lesbian looking for a girlfriend. Just like WTF, man?!?!
I think I'm flippin' out here so you dudes gotta help me. Is this normal at all? How do I stop them lesbians to stop stalking me without changing who I am? I don't want to change my personality cause some lesbian dudes want me. ;-;

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  • iEatZombies_

    Unfortunately, since the mass 'coming out' of the 2000's, everyone who isn't gay has felt the need to purposely dress and act 'not gay'. It's as though we forgot that only 10 years ago, girls wore baggy pants while being fondled by their boyfriends, and guys wore eyeliner/nail polish while he fondled baggy pants lady. Both parties grew up and became embarrassed about looking 'gay', so they stopped. Even though this trend had been going on since the late 80's, all of the sudden it's 'gay'!
    You just continue giving the world a big fuck you and keep letting people know it's their fault they stereotype, not yours!
    And you know what? I still like skinny guys with big n crazy, side-swept black hair, tattoos, piercings, and occasionally nail polish. That's who I like to fuck, so screw everyone elses opinion.

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    • green_boogers

      You would be fun at parties.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I've known a few guys who are straight and yet they get propositioned by gay guys all the time. The smart ones just laugh it off and even consider it a compliment. The others stress out and become vehemently anti gay, which does no more good than laughing it off.
    I can only sympathize with you as I've never been propositioned by either sex.

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  • anti-hero

    Femme it up or deal with it. If I walk around in assless chaps as a straight man, I can't expect gay guys not to hit on me or think I'm gay.

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  • green_boogers

    I can identify with you in a remote way. I am a heterosexual guy. For some reason, butch dyke females are intensely jealous of me. God, are they ever a pain in the ass. Yuckkkkkkkkkkkkkk!

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  • Avant-Garde

    You're going to have to deal with it. Having lesbians hit on you is expected when you cross dress. There's also a stereotypical belief that people who wear the opposite gender's clothing are gay. Many people believe this still. If they hit on you, politely turn them down. Tell them that you're straight if need be.

    I personally wear men's clothing (I don't identify as being female and I am not straight). I probably got flirted with by women more when I was a kid when my style wasn't as androgynous/masculine as it is now.

    I would take it as a compliment and move on with a polite rejection.

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    • Riddler

      How is being a tomboy cross-dressing? Cross dressing implys your trying to look like the other sex?

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  • LizardSkin

    Not sure why it's so difficult to explain that you're not gay.

    if lezzies get the impression that you might be gay based on the way you look then you are a target. Don't see any way around it.

    So decide which is more inconvenient for you, to change your lifestyle or to simply reject propositions when they occur.

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  • Riddler

    This is kind of ironic. Tomboy does not equal lesbian and Lesbian does not equal tomboy but yes there is tomboy lesbians. The spectrum goes from Girly to Tomboy to Butch. Butch means a female looks like a man, tomboy means they dress, act like a boy, and girly means they are very feminine. Most Tomboys are into boys they just like boys stuff. So dont think being a Tomboy automatically makes you gay.

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    • anti-hero

      What part of that is ironic exactly?

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      • Riddler

        Since generally when I hear people with this complaint its straight people assuming they are gay since they are tomboy. Not gays assuming they are gay because they are tomboys.

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        • anti-hero

          You are misusing irony.

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          • Riddler

            i·ro·ny1
            ˈīrənē/
            noun
            a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result.

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  • TheWeasel

    Do you like anal sex?

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Then dress yourself more feminine and grow long hair. If you look and dress like a man then people will suspect you for being a lesbian.

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  • Eric118

    Also if saying to them politely doesnt work, tell them straight in the face. Some (not all) gays/lesbians think everyone has a little homosexuality. Tell them straight in the face it comes from their perspectives, and they have 0 idea why we only love the opposite sex. If that still doesnt help, and you see the possibility of physical harassment, tell the cops!

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  • Eric118

    It is ok, people can not force us to like something. We can chose perfectly whom/what to like and whom/what to hate, you are completely normal.

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  • bill-and-jane

    I have had similar experiences. Having lived with open fires, I tend to pinch my cigarette out when their is no ashtray. One morning as I did it walking into a shop, a girl suggested that I should go back to her flat and she would let me stub some cigarettes out against her leather shorts. I was quite shocked that she assumed that I was a butch lesbian.

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  • αвαdσηтнєDєѕтяσуєя

    Don't worry, lesbians seem to do the same thing to me, too. I am feminine. I wear make up, I do my hair, I wear dresses or shorts with stockings, I have a long term boyfriend who I live with, but somehow because I have afew facial piercings and a lot of tattoos, they assume I'm one of them.

    My tattoos aren't at all masculine either. The 3 that are visible include roses, cartoon birds, wings and cartoonish stars, in very bright colour. Something a male definetly wouldn't get. Yet somehow, lesbians always swarm around me asking me if I'm straight.

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    • iEatZombies_

      Yeah, I can't help but notice that when gay people started getting piercings, tattoos, and edgy haircuts it immediately became uncool for everyone else to do so. I miss the old days when straight people had good style... =* My best friend in high school was a guy who wore make up, pretty nail polih, and had pink hair. He was not only straight but popular with the ladies. =P Ok, he was a manwhore, but still.

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