Is it normal that i'm this traumatized from my first time having sex?

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I'm a guy, i had my first time with another guy during a party at my college, we had only oral sex in the bathroom, and there was no ejaculation. The problem is, i was a little drunk and so was he, now i really regret it, because i remember everything that happened, but i don't remember exactly how it felt. Now whenever i go back to class, i keep thinking about this and can't get it out of my head, and i don't want to have sex again for a long time, i feel guilt and shame.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    6 years ago

    There's no need to feel guilt or shame. Sex is natural. It is biology, so it will happen. The important thing to realize is that there is a first time for everything - even sex - and for most people the first time with anything sexual is a bit awkward. So, just take it as a learning experience (you'll have many more as time goes on), and move on.

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