Is it normal that i'm the "good girl" in my group?

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All of my friends have a background. Drugs, Alcohol, Sex, Suicide, Cutting. And me I have nothing, never drank never did anything, I feel like the loser in the group. I just want to know if there is anyone else that has a similar story...

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Based on 44 votes (42 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Many people love the whole good girl thing, I like it a billion times better than a party chick that needs to drink and smoke and puts friends over anything. You should stay that way, a guy will be very happy to be with you someday.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    you should be happy. you make smart choices, but apparently they don't.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I like how you are implying they are the bad people in a group. They arent bad just stupid there is a difference. Good for you not being so pathetic like them.

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  • pambambam
    12 years ago

    its ok to be you. specially when youre
    the one who hasnt done harm to
    themselves. be proud of yourself.
    if you want to try the other way ...
    it aint worth it.
    be cool for being you***

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  • 343Boy
    12 years ago

    Also if you feel like a loser because you haven't caused self-harm, you should probably find new group of friends.

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  • 343Boy
    12 years ago

    You're friends with people who committed suicide?

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  • YoBanana
    12 years ago

    I'm also the "good girl" in my group. Sadly my friends think i'm the boring one of the group :\

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Find a better group of people to hang out with.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Please stay this way. There has to be some good in this world :(

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  • PandaShifter
    12 years ago

    How about...instead of the boring "Good Girl" you can be the "Happy, Smart, Non-Self Distructive Girl".

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  • crr
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way in my group. I used to say stuff and hint at stuff when o first hung out with them but then I realized... If they're true friends they will love my no matter what I do or don't do. So I remain the good girl or straightedge and they totally except me for it and in fact they've even cooled it down about all the bad stuff. Stay the good girl. Everyone picks on her but it's because they secretly love her and are envious that she makes good choices.

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    I don't view being a "good girl" as a bad thing at all. I view it as a rare quality in today's young women that needs to be nurtured and unscathed by the horrors of the world. Your friends have made some awful choices. Maybe you need to find new ones.

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Please please stay that way! My first lover was exactly like you, she felt borin because i was a bad boy, done many bad things as she was this perfect little angel. Stay clean dont envy others who have more experience than you, you will get your own

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I was exactly like that in high school. My friends would be doing all of that so I found new friends that had the same interests as me such as playing ping pong all night and stuff like that. Drugs, alcohol and sex never appealed to me back then. I waited until the right age for alcohol(21) and sex(18) I assume this is high school. It's not a bad thing!

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