Is it normal that i'm straight yet need to imagine other men with gf?

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I have always been straight. I'm 28 years old now, and have been with my girl for 3 1/2 years. Before her, I never thought of another man sexually. Always women. With her, I've felt arousal for men, but never enjoyed fantasizing about them. Today, something hit me: whenever I see men, I get turned on, but when I think of a girl, then I get super turned on and its really fulfilling, but only after I've seen the guy. I tried the fantasy in bed with her today, and I think my theory fits - that when I picture her blowing a guy while I'm doing her, it really turns me on, but if I were to do anything personally with that particular guy, it would totally turn me off, I think. It's really uncomfortable though, because on the street, guys get me going, but never to get me off. They only get me going in the direction of girls, and that gets really hot. It's hard to live my day with my mind going like this. So I imagine an MMF threesome, which is kind of annoying, because I really don't want the dude in the picture - never did, but now it's kinda hot, since it's kinda like I'm in a sperm competition with him (and btw, I always come out the winner ;-) ).

So is it normal for a traditionally hetero guy to be going through this (I understand there are many shades of bi)? Have other hetero people gone through this too? In relationship, it's MMF, but when single - girls, girls, girls?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I think you have been desensitized by porn and regular sex isn't doing it for you anymore.

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    • Musician1985
      10 years ago

      I haven't watched porn in a month

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Does not matter. **Rubs one out **ejaculates prematurely

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    I'm so tired of seeing these "I'm straight but..." Posts

    To answer your question: you're just curious.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago | pl

      I'm straight, but I want it straight in my butt

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      "Is it normal that I'm straight yet need to imagine other men with gf"

      That's not curious, that's as gay as gay can get.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I'm gay in June only.

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Good for you fuckhead!

          *hops up onto tree branch, grins and disappears

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            What is your country of origin. I need to know so I can develop prejustice thoughts.

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            • [Old Memory]
              10 years ago

              *Appears on tree branch

              You mean "prejudice" thoughts fuckhead!

              *grins and disappears

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        • katiebaby
          10 years ago

          Heheheh!

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      • April=)
        10 years ago

        Err no its not. Get your facts right before you speak, tommythecat. WHAT KIND OF USERNAME IS THAT!?!?! **walks away whistling** ♪♪♪♪♪♪♪

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          Actually it is in this context.

          Because I'm white, straight, and male, and he is also. This makes it impossible for him to have any prejustice thoughts towards me in any valid sense. However, you were both prejudice towards me and failed to see this fact as a result of said prejudice. Walk right in, sit right down, Tommy's going to take you to school.

          *One step ahead of that annoying whistling

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    • Musician1985
      10 years ago

      I don't know if I'm curious. I kinda know what it's like with a guy - it's not that appealing.

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      • iEatZombies_
        10 years ago

        You're not gay. You're not attracted to men, so you're not gay. I don't know why people have to make this so complicated. If you're attracted to the same sex, you're gay. If you're attracted to the opposite sex, you're straight. If both, bi. If neither, asexual.
        It doesn't even matter if you sucked a dudes dick. Gay people, in situations, had to first have sex with opposite genders to realize it wasn't attractive- that doesn't make them less gay, so why should it be any different for you?

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      • gummy_jr
        10 years ago

        *rolls eyes*

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  • tuvwxyz
    10 years ago

    Your not gay at all. I think its hot. I also fantasize my gf getting poked from behind from another dude and seeing her go nuts while having orgasm after orgasm while im either getting a bj or im entering her analy. Its hot to think of your woman getting extremely turned on. My only thing is that she doesnt know him and will never see him again like picking up a stranger in your car then dropping him off again. Will we do it, dont know. She has that as a fantasy too.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    I think someone need some alone time with a traffic cone.

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  • MacG
    10 years ago

    I didn't read your post carefully, but that sorts sounds something like a cuckold fetish, which I personally am baffled by. But I'm sure people who are into it find it quite normal. There's certainly enough porn dedicated to it. I've uh, heard.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    If you type "I'm straight but" into the search engine on this site, you will get, literally, 50 pages of answers to your question.

    The mods should automatically reject any submission that contains "I'm straight but" anywhere in the text.

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    • Musician1985
      10 years ago

      I didn't realize. I'm kinda new to this site.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Men's asses.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        "member for 1 year, 1 month."

        I'm guessing you've seen quite a few of these in the past year.

        There are several of them posted in this last run.

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        • Musician1985
          10 years ago

          Ok I wasn't really looking at what other people were writing. Also, in that 1+ year, I've posted rather sporadically.

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  • aweshiz_1977
    10 years ago

    I think you need to try a threesome with a guy and your girl...but only if you are willing to be honest with yourself and your girl.I think it would be pretty messed up if you end up sucking dudes dick and being the receiver of his cock..she may be fucking pissed...I think u may be gay.

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  • Caryopteris
    10 years ago

    What tuvwxyz said. I dated a guy with fantasies of other guys dirtying me and me coming home and showing him how naughty I'd been. We kept it to pillow talk because actually doing it would get, er, messy.

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  • J3553
    10 years ago

    That's weird.

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  • stonerpanda99
    10 years ago

    how is that even possible?

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  • Phishy
    10 years ago

    "I'm straight but..." This post isn't worth my time.

    You're curious.

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