Is it normal that i'm still with my boyfriend after he cheated?

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My boyfriend had his male best friend over while I was on a night shift at work and the next morning, I went to his house and he told me that they got really drunk and he cheated on me with him...
I cried so much. I didn't want to believe it. I do appreciate that he told me straight away but it still really hurts... should I have still be in the relationship with him? Is it normal for me to still be with him?

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Based on 21 votes (8 yes)
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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    Depends on if you’re gonna be able to get past it. But personally, I don’t find bisexual men attractive. It would be a major turn off for me.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    I mean people stay with cheating partners all the time.
    I personally wouldn't be able to because I have too much pride, I wouldn't let someone step on me like that. Pride even overpowers love for me and in these cases i'm happy about that. I've had a cheating partner once and I thought he was the love of my life even 3 years after the breakup but nothing on earth could ever make me forget he betrayed me.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    If you can Move past it yea. That's a special case. When really drunk I know I'm prone to make mistakes so when I have a man he must be there or I'll drink light. He very well could not of known he'd be like yeavlets do gay sex and he told you immediately wich shows hes honest and cares. Personally I'd stay with him. At least short term. I dont know of I could get past it but all the elements needed for me are there.

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  • MissWolf
    4 years ago

    Let me guess this is your post too

    https://www.isitnormal.com/post/my-boyfriend-s-best-friend-slept-with-me-292151

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      4 years ago

      Dang. If that's her post too, then she's really not innocent in this either. She should've left as soon as he confessed he cheated instead of cheating back with the same guy her boyfriend fucked. XD

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      • MissWolf
        4 years ago

        Exactly. I mean it could possibly not be her post too but the two posts seem oddly connecting

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        • BellydancerMin
          4 years ago

          That's not my post. This is the only post I've put up. I'm new here.

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  • Thicky69
    3 years ago

    It’s childish to leave somebody if they do, cheat on him you’ll feel better, I always regret leaving my ex when she cheated on me I should’ve kept her around. Have a 3 some lol

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  • Mcochik
    4 years ago

    You could have the best of both worlds now and have the 2 of them bang you.. Girls go nuts for the feeling of 2 dicks inside them

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  • EnglishLad
    4 years ago

    If he cheated thats bang out of order, but if you've forgiven him by carrying on the relationship with him, then I'm afraid I have no sympathy.

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  • CDmale4fem
    4 years ago

    When it happens again then again and YOU STILL TAKE HIM BACK, hes going to know that he can cheat whenever and you wull continue taking him back. No consequences for his actions.

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    You're a cheating whore and he's a cheating cunt.

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    • BellydancerMin
      4 years ago

      I've never cheated so you're wrong there

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    I have no place in my heart for cheaters.

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