Is it normal that i'm still waiting for my soul mate? (i'm 21)

I'm a perfect handsome guy, good brains, good voice, funnier if u are friends to me, and a lot more.

I just find myself a little shy among girls. I've been waiting for the perfect girl to walk into my life.

Tell me what should I do?

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  • Faceless

    My soulmate is a bottle of gin and a tear soaked pillow.

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    • Megid

      You shall be stoned, Polygamist!

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  • dappled

    Keep waiting. They sneak up on you out of nowhere. Even if you already know them and had never considered them someone you'd develop such a bond with, some small aspect or twist of conversation can open your eyes.

    There's no way you can make her appear, but there are ways to improve the chances. For her to walk into her life, you've got to be where she's walking.

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  • Jessie735513

    I'm a huge believer in soul mates... But 21 is still young...so there is no need to worry. Youre soulmate will walk into your life some time soon I'm sure :)

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  • Dizzee

    Awww~ I'm pretty much the same way. I've been feeling depressed for a long time now, but just the idea of 'there's someone out there that will love me one day and I to them' keeps me going.
    I'd say keep waiting. Your soul mate will find you one day, no worries. For now all you can do is just chill and be yourself. Whatever you do, don't rush into it because the more you rush, the more likely you'll end up finding someone who you won't truly love. Hope this makes sense and hope I helped some.

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    • cooldudejw

      well said

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  • hellostrangers

    You are a "perfect handsome guy"? You already found your soul mate, YOURSELF. My god, what a loser.

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    • humage

      i know what you are talking about. I just don't wanna end up with a wrong girl. There are plenty around me, but i guess i'm too afraid to take my chances. :-/

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  • hellostrangers

    LOL. Youre still a baby, the wait has only begun!

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  • joybird

    I was 31 before I met my soul mate, he came to our house to do some work. However, it was 6 years before I met him again :o)
    Strangely enough, he felt the same connection!

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  • alv1592

    21 is still young. Just be patient and love will find you. I'll be 20 in about 5 months and still no bf...but it's ok, it'll happen soon enough.

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  • SoccerStud88

    my soulmate better be in the kitchen right now

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  • Jessie735513

    Oh no, I said youre when I meant your.

    I am ashamed of myself :3

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  • Damn^
    Dappled is a god.

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  • sleepingbeauty

    I was 42 years old when my soul mate unexpectedly arrived in my life. That doesn't mean I didn't have a life prior to this! And I have loved, but this is the first time in my life I have found someone that I love enough to marry and spend the rest of my life with.

    So 21 is very young to me, and your idea of 'perfect' may not match the person who finally steals your heart and soul :)

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  • 41ph4m413

    Quit being beta and get laid bro

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