Is it normal that i'm still thinking about her?

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Not so long ago a girl broke my heart... we weren't dating but I loved her and she rejected me for someone else. right now I have a girlfriend, I really love her, but sometimes I'm thinking about the other one... I don't even know why.. I just miss her.... is it normal that I'm still thinking about her? it's making me doubt my love to my girlfriend and I really love her and want to give her all the love I can..

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Based on 63 votes (52 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Unfortunately, we always want what we can't have. There is a Neal Young song, "love the one you're with" that we should always take to heart.

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  • lelouch82
    8 years ago

    Just let it go and move of dude..

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    To the moon alice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "The feeling goes away, along with a tiny piece of your soul. You must regain this missing part by syphoning it back from others. You must not leave it too long however, for you will become too weak to psychically connect and drain it."

    -Tommy, king of all cats.

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  • Louisalice
    10 years ago

    Are not always the best and most wanted

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans
    10 years ago

    Oh damn heres a original one!
    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-i-feel-this-way-145606/

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-feel-this-way-35451/

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-all-of-a-sudden-feel-this-way-71487/

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-i-feel-this-way-115084/

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-i-feel-this-way-about-her-84751/

    Trust me i like reading those stories but it always starts with the same phrase be a bit creative.

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    Definitely normal, you had real feelings and they don't just disappear with the flip of a switch. Still, be willing to close that chapter and enjoy your new stories with your new girlfriend. You've been blessed with someone who you're actually going out with this time and that is great news. Most people including myself have experienced this but firmly make a mental note that that was then and this (your gf) is now.

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  • GazingEye
    10 years ago

    Yes this is normal just give it time and things will fix themselves, just be busy and do things with your new girlfriend and try not to think about the other girl even though it's hard.

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  • Justsomejerk
    10 years ago

    FFS Jason, get a dog.

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