Is it normal that i'm still mad at my mom

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When I was 23 I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl who was born handicapp only 4lb 8oz. The doctors showed me the big eyed beautiful lil girl and then showed me how her feet and hands were mangled!!! I was scared as hell!! My daughter was rushed to intensive care unit where she stayed for months!!!! Even though her father was with me, I still needed and wanted my mom!! She never came, my daughter had to have several surgies and wasn't expected to make it, she still never came!!! Well my daughter did make it and over the course of her life has had too many surgies for me to count!!! My mom has never been to the hospital never stopped by the house when we came home or anything!!! My daughter is six years old now very smart and loving girl, and my mom still has little to do with her. Am I wrong for being mad at my mom????

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  • the_misty_haze
    11 years ago

    I understand why you'd still be upset. During one of the hardest times of your life your mother bailed and now she ignores the most important thing in your life. I can't imagine your pain and disappointment in her. People tend to want to expect the best from there mothers even when there not what we wish they would be. As hard as it it try to let go at least a little. She's the one missing out. You are blessed with a beautiful miracle daughter. If she can't see that then its her loss. Its easier said then done though. I know how hard it is to let go of such a betrayal and that's what your mom did in a way. And I know with myself anger often masks hurt. And hurt likes to linger healthy or not. I hope you find peace as much as you can with this and bless you and your lovely child.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    She must not like disabled children. She's a bitch, but you'll have to forget her and move on.

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  • melloelf
    11 years ago

    call her, and just be like where the fuck were you, if she only spouts some bullshit, just leave it plain and simple - she wanted nothing to do with her granddaughter, now you want nothing to do with her, hang up, never talk to the bitch again.

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    oh wow your mothers quite the bitch isnt she? give her a call :3 and tell her to meat the granddaughter she hasnt seen since you where pregnant(fat):3

    sorry for the sick joke

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  • 0404
    11 years ago

    I think you are in the right she is in the wrong.

    just hold your head up high and be thankful how far you have come with out her.

    all the best for you and your family!

    :D

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    Keep your mom out of your life and be happy don't let her spoil your life.

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  • ZommBeee
    11 years ago

    What an arsehole. My mother isn't any better. Don't worry, your better off without her. As long as that little girl has a loving mum and dad that's all that matters.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Your mom is a bitch.

    Don't waste your life being bitter about it.

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  • Ixu
    11 years ago

    If your mother cared she would've taken this scenario a lot more seriously. After six years and you still haven't found closure, it's time to let go of that anger and forget about your mother.

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    If she doesn't want to be a part of your daughters life then forget her. I think your anger is just since she doesn't same to care.

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