Is it normal that i'm still going on a date with this guy?

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So I've known this guy for bit, and we met through a friend. I have a friend who is insanely gorgeous that almost every guy goes for, but surprisingly enough this guy, after meeting both of us, seems to only show interest in me. He's pretty attractive, definitely above average looking (not just my opinion) so of course my friend is annoyed that he's not showing much interest in her.

So we hang out, and I was planning on making a move, when I see him and my friend making out. Frustrated, I just tried to forget about it and move on. I'm not one to hold grudges so of course once my friend apologized, I forgave her and tried to forget him.

Later on, about 2 weeks after not speaking to him, I had forgotten that he had my number. He texted me, and we have been talking on and off since. One night after work, he came and visited me and drove me home, which I thought was pretty thoughtful of him. Anyways, he asked me out on a date. I said yes. This was before I found out that he has asked out 3 other girls from my workplace.

I talked it over with some friends (excluding the one that he made out with, to make it less awkward) and I decided to go out with him anyway. Of course I don't think it's really going to go anywhere with us, so is it worth it to still go on the date?

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Based on 48 votes (13 yes)
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  • rainbowdrop
    12 years ago

    How close are you with this pretty friend? If you're merely aquaintences, I wouldn't feel bad about going on the date. If she happens to be a good friend of yours, I wouldn't go on it. But, the fact that he also has asked out three other girls (how far apart did he ask them?) makes him out to sound like some player douche type. If you don't believe that things aren't going to go anywhere with him, I would definitely say no and run far away. From what I'm reading, it seems like its completely pointless and time wasting for you. Yeah, he visited you and gave you a ride, but when you add everything else to the mix, its not that appealing. There will be other boys! They are everywhere. -_-

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Ok coming from a guys point of view he probably really liked YOU but you diddnt make your move fast enough your friend was probably throwing herself at him and he figured u diddnt want him so he went for it personally I think you should get a better friend cuz your is kind of a bitch

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  • ilove.nsn
    12 years ago

    Fuck him.

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  • dreamon
    12 years ago

    This guy is a major player so I don't think it's a good idea if you are thinking of any romantic future with him. It's a major waste of time imo.

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Example of a Bimbo

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  • Kakashilover
    12 years ago

    Waisting*

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  • Kakashilover
    12 years ago

    You are waising your time with him

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  • Road2nowhere
    12 years ago

    Ouch, i've voted that it is normal on this question, but that doesn't mean its normal in a good way.

    As has been said, he's a player. Because he has looks, and he also knows it (not everybody realises they are attractive), he is just bouncing around and enjoying the excitement of starting things up, but it's a rare thing that such a person will meet anybody they will stay with, not until they get older and out of that way of living.

    Stay clear pleaseeeee, you're just going to end up getting hurt, maybe a little, but most likely, a LOT.

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    • sunshinemoonlight
      7 years ago

      truetrue

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I had a lovely friend who was asked out by a real player, she was too innocent to handle him so I advised her not to go. Anyway, she went, fell in love and once he reeled her in, he dumped her and broke her heart :o(

    Normally, I'd say to go - you can't have too many shoes or pals BUT I hope you don't get fooled into believing any of his bullshit before he puts a ring on your finger.

    He's a serious player!!

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  • bones
    12 years ago

    Sounds like he's just playing girls heart strings to get what he wants. Refuse the offer.

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