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Hi all. I'm 30 yr, had some bf, but still a virgin. I want to lose it badly. I feel like an idiot when my bf know it, and so embarrassing. I need some help. Please tell me what to do.
I suppose it would depend on the circumstance, but I think it's plenty normal.
There are some people who are completely afraid or uncomfortable with the act or are--unfortunately--insufferably shy. Then there are people who want to wait for the right person or marriage.
Just how many 30 year old virgins do you know? Do you know more 30 year old virgins than not?
I'm sorry, there is nothing 'normal' as in common, ordinary, most or the usual, about being a 30 year old virgin.
I'm NOT saying there is anything wrong with it, just that it is not the 'norm' in our society.
What society are YOU in? And there are plenty on another site that I've seen OVER 30.
There IS something normal as in "not harming anyone or has anything to do with anyone's business". There's also something common/ordinary/usual if the 30 and above have what I've depicted in my first post.
What YOU consider the norm is merely your opinion.
Be serious. It is not an opinion that the majority of the world's population are virgins after 30 or anywhere close to it. Perhaps you live in a convent, or an especially religious community, I don't know, but certainly in my many, many years on this planet it is by far not the norm for men or women over 30 to be virgins.
What has harming or anyone's business to do with the simple question; is it normal to be a 30 year old virgin? In point of fact, it is not normal; read a dictionary if you need the definition of normal, please.
I was using my personal definition of normal. And there are multiple definitions of normal beyond that of the dictionary.
It's not hard to grasp. No one indicated anything that about the majority of the world being virgins after 30. I simply said that I agree that it is normal for someone to be as such as opposed to abnormal.
It IS normal to me. Whether or not you agree does not matter.
So you would rather invent your own definitions for words, than use the accepted ones found in a dictionary? That does make conversation very difficult, unless you supply a guide to ArayaLioness's English language.
If you reread my original post, I did say that even if it is not the norm, that it isn't necessarily wrong.
I'm sorry, but I have never heard that definition of normal outside of your comments. Where are you getting that from?
DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG I'VE BEEN A VIRGIN??? DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG I'VE BEEN A VIRGIN??? 108 YEARS!!! 108 YEARS I HAVE NOT HAD SEX!!!!!! YOU THINK THIS IS SOME SORT OF JOKE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Well, you've had it this long. I wouldn't just throw it away Willy nilly.
It is pretty normal among the most ancient civilisations such as India, Iraq, Iran, Turkey, Egypt etc. Their cultures, biliefs, traditions and rituals do not let them to loose their virginity until marriage and marriages are accustomed to happened not before 28 years of age normally.
If you wanna lose it badly, go out get drunk meet some guys and before you know it.... You won't remember the night before :O
You'll wait an eternity for prince charming. Unless you go out and find him.