Is it normal that i'm still a virgin?

I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am very much in love with, but we have never done anything involving his dick or my vagina. He has expressed before that he wants to go farther, but I don't. Is this normal? Or is there something wrong with this picture?

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Based on 286 votes (200 yes)
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Comments ( 31 )
  • QD4Gaming

    Solution: Rip of his clothes and suck his dick, he's happy becuz he is finally getting some and your happy becuz you dont have to right embarassing things on the internet anymore *Thumbs Up*

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername

    Is it because you perhaps phrased it as: 'I want your dick in my vagina'?

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  • Zededd

    you're just not ready. don't let him push you. take your time. may be a little awkward and you should look into things that can take his sexual edge off... but don't let him push you

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  • Anon.26

    Perfectly normal. Don't do anything you don't want to do yet.

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  • Hmmaybe

    For the hundredth time. Yes whatever you're age it's normal to be a virgin if you don't feel that you want to have sex yet. There really needs to be an ai poster on this site that detects the word Virgin in stories and automatically gives this message.

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  • Blackwargreymon

    Hehe, that's a...interesting way of putting it.

    Depends a bit on why you don't want to, but generally I would say it is normal.

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  • Yes, no matter what age you are it is okay to still be a virgin. Your mind has to be ready, not just your body

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  • HallowGround

    I dated a guy for 6 months and didn't do anything sexual. I'm still a virgin, too. I couldn't bring myself to do it, because I kept thinking, "That's the ultimate form of trust. I don't know." And, the more I thought about it, the more I realized I didn't want to do it.

    I'm 21 and a proud virgin.

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    • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

      awesome.

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  • MLC

    Depends on how old you are too.

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  • Dont listen to him he just wants to take it

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    • VanillaKilla

      Uhhh, isn't that what guys are supposed to do? Or is she supposed to either:

      A. Die a virgin
      B. Have it taken by a random guy at a party
      C. Taken by an inanimate object

      ?

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      • No guys do it to for their pleasure mot yours teust me im a guy

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  • perfeclty normal, no matter what age. Your body is ready when your mind andyour heart feel ready. Just tell your love that you don't feel ready yet, they should understand. Think about it this way; there are people who go their WHOLE LIVES without having sex, so what's a couple years or a few months? I personally never want to have sex, the idea scares me. So I definatley think it is normal.

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    • i think theres some thing wrong with u!!!!!!!! i meen sex is great, and i think that every woman/man should want to have it

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      • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

        some people just arent ready when others are.

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    • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

      there's a balance with most things.

      this is one of those things.

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  • mateo

    u think 2 much.just use instinct once you decide your ready

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  • tego

    if u cant to remain a vargin remain oh because dick is to sweet to leave. i had sex over 2hr when my boyfriend was disvirginig me even though we were kissing n sucking my breast b4, i was eager to feel his big penic in my vargina. the day u will never forget.

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  • theaverageatheist

    how old are you?

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  • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

    its normal.

    its about time people in relationships started connecting on a higher level.

    give it time.

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  • coz1

    hi am the 19 year old lad i love her i want to have sex with but as i said before i have a small manhood it is small thick and hairy it is 4inchs and 6inch grith please can i have some advice it is getting me down

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    • Juniper

      if you're nice to her it won't matter. but if you wanna improve it get circ'ed if you aren't already.

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  • coz1

    am 19 years old lad and i have a girlfriend and i love her but i am embarressed as i have a small manhood it is very hairy i think when she sees it she will laugh please help

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  • Greg1492

    Maybe you aren't attracted to him. If you are, then spend an hour kissing and touching and you won't be able to stop yourself.

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  • TheSlipperyPig

    if you've been with him for almost a year and still haven't put out chances are he's going to get bored and move on.

    guys hate hard to get women.

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    • intellectuallychallengedmaybe

      not always. some like a challenge.

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  • Shaung1

    Just let it happen

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  • dokudoku

    Its is probably *mostly* OK, but its not normal after a certain age (maybe like 18). Its not normal to be a virgin after 18 because:

    1) most people do it
    2) you are supposed to do it, its a psychological need.

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  • Aleks85

    Spread your legs bitch.

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  • android240

    why not go farther and do it unless your under the age of 16 why not? if you love him prove it.

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