Is it normal that i'm shy when it comes to dirty talking with my bf?

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Hi everyone. I've been going out with my boyfriend for a good 2 months now and he has a very sexual mind. It's like he has a built in x-ray. He loves to talk about woman's bodies but I can't really blame him because he's a guy(No Offence to men). I read in an article that if you talk dirty to your man he won't ever think about leaving you so i tried it and he loved it. He wasn't the problem though. I was. I have sent him loads of apologies and I have told him face to face that I didn't mean to act like such a freak. He told me that he loved it when I got horny because he loves to think sexual thoughts in general. But I feel so wrong about talking to him like that. I want him to consider marrying me but I don't know if normal couples talk dirty to each other. Will he look at me as his slut if I keep this up? Will he like me more? I don't know what to think. All I know is that I feel totally stupid when I talk to him in that manner. Talking dirty is not my personality and I am a very shy person, the exact opposite of his bold and outgoing personality. Should I be talking dirty to him or should I stick to being me?

Should I stop talking dirty to him? 3
Should I have sex with him more to avoid having to talk dirty to him? 0
Should I do it sometimes but keep it to a minimum? 5
Should I keep on talking dirty to him? 4
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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Talking dirty is great for couples married or not.

    It's just between you two so it shouldn't really matter what you say.

    Do you like it when he talks dirty to you?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Some couples do it, it's normal. If you're really embarrassed/not into it then that's okay, but your bf seems to love it so I wouldn't worry that he thinks your a slut (which he wouldn't). I don't know where you heard that talking dirty will stop your man from cheating but it sounds a bit bullshitty... but if he enjoys it it definitely wont hurt to continue :) Being shy and being shy in sexual situations with someone you love are two different things, gaining confidence with your boyfriend won't change who you are (although shyness isn't usually seen as a trait that people try to have lol)

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    Do what ur comfortable with, but no, dirty talk with ur bf isn't slutty, but dirty talk with a stranger, that be a bit slutty sure

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