Is it normal that i'm scared to show my body to my bf

my bf wants see me in my bra and underwear but i'm scared to is that normal.

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Based on 239 votes (214 yes)
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  • DannyKanes

    If you don't want to, then don't. It's your body not his.

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  • I think you're just worrying that he might see something he wont like, and then he wont like you.

    Trust me on this, my girlfriend is exactly the same, but eventually she just thought "Fuck it" and never regretted it.

    Infact, now she can't keep her clothes on.

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  • notscottishlass

    Yeah it's normal I guess. Because I am too. I'm pretty confident that I have a good body, but I'm still scared that I'll feel too fat or that something won't look right to him. We're our own worst critics anyway. If you've ever looked in the mirror and accepted yourself, or thought "i'm actually pretty hott" then you have nothing to worry about!

    It's just that in the moment you tend to forget that. Guys are usually more accepting than you are of yourself. And I only say that because you *don't* expose yourself willingly.

    It's so much better than the girls out there who rip their clothes off at any chance they get without any real attractiveness to show for it.

    You'll get to the point where you try showing him and he'll love it so much that you won't feel weird about it anymore.

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  • hahahannah

    Its so scary and it's hard to get over it because you want him to like and be attracted to you. Feeling venerable is hard to get past. Spend time alone naked try to see everything beautiful about your body, learn to love yourself first. Once you have that confidence if will become easier for you to show it off. Good luck!

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  • Cookies&Cream

    Its totally normal, be sure to let him know this so there isnt any misunderstanding. When you do feel ready let him know :}

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  • DanB

    It's normal...make sure your comfortable. Hell back when I was 14 it took us a month before we actually made out. I didn't see body parts for ages but we lasted 3 years. And it was a life changing relationship. I love that girl, and we'll always be friends.

    Butttttt if he's just some creep you've known for a week wanting to see you? Tell him to bail cause you ain't that kinda girl. Don't get used.

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  • professionalstoner

    normal! i've hooked up with guys but the first guy to ever see me completely naked was my last boyfriend. i've always been insecure but only with him was i comfortable enough to let him see me.

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  • Juvu.Lotus

    If you have to take them off so should he. Tell him that. How is it fair for him to be clothed and you naked???

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  • gako

    Well if you don't want too. You don't have too. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to do it.

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  • cass

    normal to be nervous. but guys love a naked chick infront of them with mad confidence. just strip down and show a sexy smile, if it bothers you that much just tell him he only gets to see if you do too.

    butttt, if your not ready, dont do it or youll just feel awkward about it.

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  • xdresser

    If you show him and he hurts your feelings then tell him to piss off

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  • Excelerate

    Show me first? :P but ummm... If you dont want to do anything like that yet just tell him in a calm way. ;3

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