Is it normal that i'm scared i'm going to die a virgin

You're 19.

If you live a normal healthy life you still have a good 70-80 years ahead of you. Do you really think not getting laid in the first fraction of your life means you'll be a virgin forever?

You DON'T HAVE TO HAVE SEX

Don't think of it as dying a virgin, think of it as dying STD free.

im a virgin and damn proud of it

Dude, relax.. it's all good. I've had lots of sex and I'll never have a family, but it's not relevant here.

Pussy will come your way too, the less you stress about it, the faster it'll happen. Besides it ain't such a great conquest. A few hours of sweaty exercise (good for your core muscles, though), stuff your johnson into a wet, stinky place and pray to God that skank doesn't have chlamydia. Alright, it does get better when you have a partner you like, but still...

Just wait don't throw your life away by having sex and making a girl pregnant besides the consequences of sex is you're going to have to raise a kid! i am 23 and i'm still waiting i have much better things to do.. but i know how you feel its rough.. Just use your right or left hand to do the job and you'll be fine lol

I'm 20 dating a super model and got laid a month ago you never know

Watch for those STD's lol

It's totally normal, the important thing about this is knowing how to combat them! For one, knowing what women like.

Good Sense of Humor

Good Taste(in clothing and life)

A sense of direction - this is important because very few women that are truly worth your time will give even the slightest bit of a damn about an idiot who has no drive and no goals in life.

CONFIDENCE! This one is important...probably the most important, and I will tell you why, and this isn't just for girls either, this is for LIFE.

If you don't have any Confidence in yourself you speak in a shy tone, you speak in unclear inconfident terms, you are afraid to speak up, you are afraid to make yourself KNOWN. This is the first thing to combat in the fight to rid yourself of Virginity and prepare you for life! If it seems like the douchebags always get the hot girls there are noted reasons why, they are typically very full of themselves and therefore have an abundance of Confidence in themselves and make forceful statements, not inquisical statements. For Example -

"Lets have dinner sometime." sounds much better than
"Would you like to have dinner sometime" ofcourse she'd like to have dinner sometime, she does eat...people do that kind of thing. The Key is with confidence, in whatever situation, has to be put out there so others can acknowledge it. When you go in for an interview for a job even, if you are unsure of yourself, then they will be unsure of YOU. Women are the same way, you need to make sure that they know you are PREPARED! That you are CONFIDENT! That you know what you want in life, and that THEY are what you WANT...Now once you have let them know that they have caught your eye and your confidence has caught theirs, it's time to let them know everything else about you. Confidence and getting that IN is the biggest leap for many, especially people from smaller schools. After that it's about connecting, and making sure that she knows who you are, and you know who she is, and that you're not there for a one nighter. Slutty girls who do one nighters don't care about confidence, they usually care about how big the buldge in the pants is. Occasionally the silver tongued wonder douches do sweep in, turn a girl into a one nighter by lying through every pore in their body and get lucky, but you have to be the better Man, make sure when you connect with a woman and you both like each other, to fight for that connection and to fight for her. Just getting into a relationship isn't a guarantee of success, after the confidence, good taste, and good sense of humor gets you in...it's your personality's job to keep you in there.

Dicks and peniseses

I think all guys worry about that at some point in their life. If it's not being a Virgin, it's worrying that that last ex ruined women for u forever and it's the last time you'll get laid anyway. If I were you I'd try tinder. It's a pretty easy way to meet girls without having to feel the sting of personal rejection. U can sort thru tons of gorgeous girls and find ones that you like and they can do the same. I think it's free too

if you are that worried, go buy you some poontang...about $50 and you will be a virgin no more...actually, if you tell her before you do it, she will probably really make it great for you..or maybe not charge you!!

She was the first girl I dated I'm 20 she's 22 so relly up to luck

well, i have never had that feeling and i have had my share of women, more than most men i suspect. i would venture to say i have had at least 100 different women in my life. not bragging but just saying that you dont have to worry about dying a virgin. if you are so worried, go buy you some and then put that behind you. that may be the ice breaker for you to go and find you a woman that you can be happy with. get you one that is a hotty in bed, you will be happy all the time if you can keep up with her but there are many ways to please a woman other than just having normal sex.

Some days, Some Nights. Some Live, Some Die. In the way of the samurai. This is all you need in life!

Don't worry, I'm in the same boat.
I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never done anything.
I mean, in grade 7 I dated my friend for two weeks...
We played soccer together... that's it.. I don't think I even liked him romantically.
So it doesn't really count hahaha.
ANYWAY, (sorry, got off the topic), It sucks doesn't it.
But, I mean, maybe it means that you wont just settle for anyone, because your soul knows who it's looking for?
If that sounds cheesy, you can hire a hooker?
Hehehehe.

I tell you what, just go out there and seduce some guy you want. Change yourself a little, don't get all tensed up. Just loosen yourself a bit and you'll be just fine. :)

I took my husbands virginity when he was 21 and he had only kissed one girl before and that was only because he was drunk. It'll happen apparently sometimes it just waits til marriage even if you don't want it to.

p.s.
I had a 1 year old son when I met my husband

it is glorious to die a virgin

There is nothing wrong with dying a virgin. I hope you are a very old virgin when it finally happens.

OMFG BRO I know how you feel. I am 18 still in highschool and yea a virgin but ive had several girlfriends in my life. I think the real killer is how young I look. I have been told by COUNTLESS GIRLS theres no way your 18. Very sad :*(

Like I've heard that b4 , for whatever that's worth. I'm afraid my loins got the better of me tho so there only would've had to have be one girl - anywhere, and there's no way I'd go a virgin.

I think this is a pretty normal fear. Also, you should know that being a virgin at 19 isn't as unusual as you probably think it is. I can think of several people I know offhand who were still virgins until their 20s.

O_O well seems to me ur ugly :O go bi more options

I'm never gonna have that feeling ;D