Is it normal that i'm scared about making love?

Okay...I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I've never had sex before. My boyfriend suggested that maybe we do it sometime but the idea worries me a little. You often see people who's relationships revolve around sexual acts and I really don't want that to happen to me, so to speak. One of my colleagues keeps bragging about all these girls he's had one night stands with, and he still refuses believe that a 23-year-old guy has never done it with anybody before and laughs when I insist I haven't; so please don't make fun of me too much haha. Don't get it wrong, my partner is the kindest and most incredible person in the world and I greatly, greatly doubt he would ever exploit me in any way. And although I think I'm ready for it, it's still in the back of my mind all the time and I can't stop dwelling on it. Does anybody have any advice?

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  • jethro

    OK so are you a man or a woman?

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    • I am a man.

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  • jrbsportz

    Dude baby step!!! Start slow one step at a time till you are comfortable to go all the way with your partner where both of you two will enjoy.fuck all those people their bunch of bull shitters anyway.keep your head up the day will come just saying!!!!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Don't consent to doing anything you don't want to do, and be open, and honest with your partner.

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    • Okay, thank you for the support.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    "please don't make fun of me too much"
    "Does anybody have any advice?"

    There are/were men here in their 30's & 40's who never had it, so that's unlikely. As for advice there are plenty of other people here that can help you with that.

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  • ellnell

    You don't have to if you don't want to.

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  • John671671

    Dude, get with a woman! You won’t regret it.

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