Is it normal that i'm paranoid about guys?

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I've never gotten much attention from the opposite gender most of my life. Now, suddenly, guys have started taking notice. (Guys that i thought were way out of my league). All of a sudden, I'm being flirted with and getting compliments, it sorta pisses me off. (I'm used to looks of disgust). All that unsettles me because my confidence is still at the bottom of a morgue somewhere and i cant help but suspect ulterior motives. I always hear about girls with low self-esteem being led on and tricked into things because (let's face it) we're easy targets -_- (I've never been more than pals with a guy ever, so you see how this freaks me out a little). Is it normal to be so paranoid?

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  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    I get that guys freak me out the worst part is the fact that I'm gay so it makes it like ten times worse because no one gets it. I don't like being in groups of them and if I don't have something that can kill you if you turn on me then it makes me even more worried... I've also got mental illnesses that make me this way but that's not the point

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  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    Yesss, I'm always paranoid when it comes to males, maybe because I have trust issues, but I always think they are up to something. Maybe focusing on yourself and raising your self esteem will help, then you wouldn't be bothered about what they think or have to say because you know the real you

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    and i know people arent out to get me XD not dealing with schizophrenia (probably spelled that wrong) but i cant help but wonder a bit

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    not literally looks of disgust, but i did get comments about how unattractive i was. usually accompanied by a half-serious 'only joking'

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  • tayler_nordenger
    13 years ago

    did you grow boobs?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Of course it's normal. Most men do only have ulterior motives.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I wonder how good you are at reading the opposite sex: from looks of disgust to flirtation? That's the only attention you get? Something is missing here.

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  • womanwhowenttomars
    13 years ago

    i feel the same way. I don't want to get married that's why. I have had terrible experience with guys. That's why i don't go beyond platonic relationships ..

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  • wannarocktheworld
    13 years ago

    well getting good no-strings-attached ons offers ain't that bad girl... guys aren't always as creepy as u stereotype them to be

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  • nat200
    13 years ago

    I feel that way too but I only attract creepers -_-

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yah no worries it's normal I've been with only one guy and It lasted very short. Anyways I just recently started talking to a guy..but he's giving me the idea that he likes me. And it's just very weird for me it paranoids me too. And I also noticing hating the feeling of falling in love with someone the Lovy dovy feeling ew haha....so anyways no worries it's normal(:

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    people are people. Not every guy is out to get you and not every guy is just wanting Bifurcation. There are tons of slutty girls that offer that these days so I'm sure if they wanted to fk they wouldnt want to make a game out of it.

    Women are stupid

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    • PublicServiceGuy
      13 years ago

      Dear TheGuruOfTheSauce

      "Women are stupid"

      Truer words have never been said.

      Sincerely

      PSG

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