Is it normal that i'm on love with an asshole guy?

Is it normal that I'm in love with a complete asshole? I've been talking to him for a year on and off and he keeps breaking my heart. We've never dated but he means so much to me and he knows it. We'll get really into talking and then when things get serious he always has some excuse to leave. Well this time he told me he liked some girl that I knew but she didn't like him so I was giving him advice and we fell in love again. But the girl figured out and told him that she now liked him. So he's all confused. He tells me that he needs to "chose" like what's there to chose about? She's completely verbally abusive towards him and plays with his heart. I've always been here for him and he's never noticed. Idk what to do. He chose her btw but she said she didn't like him like that anymore
So he's back to talking to me

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  • Tealights

    It's normal. We all fall for the wrong person every now and then for reasons we're not entirely sure of, but the feelings are there.

    What you can do is detach yourself from this guy. All you are is a back-up plan to him, a consolation prize when he doesn't get the girl he wants.

    No worries though, the feeling always comes back if you leave yourself open to it, and hopefully it's for a much better guy who feels the same about you.

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  • xfg39

    This is all happening virtually? Just detach yourself from the internet, walk over and strangle her. She's in the pod right next to yours.

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    • No we all talk in person. And she's legit my neighbor

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  • RoseIsabella

    You said it yourself, this guy is an asshole! Clearly what you need to do is to leave him alone, because he's an asshole. Assholes are for pooping out of not falling in love with.

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  • here2help

    you sounds needy. maybe they dont want to talk to you?

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  • RandyRascal

    Just go to a local tavern. Find a guy with a clean cock, and fuck him. Problem solved.

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  • Cedric_Diggory

    is she prettier than you? Are you pretty? Are you confident or a complete introvert? Do other people also walk over you this easily or is it just him?

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  • peterrabbyt3

    Suck the guy off for fuck sakes.

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  • ateb47

    Be careful he dont shove his cock all the way up your asshole and rip you a new one and then you will have to go to the ER to get your poop chute sewed back up.
    Then it will hurt like hell to take a shit everyday.

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