Is it normal that i'm obsessed with this dude?

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There's this guy in my class who I'm suddenly obsessed with after sharing a few words with him after class one night. He's really unusual looking (in a GREAT way), soft spoken, mysterious, and a little weird, but I like weird.

After we talked that one night, I came home and went on the Sims and made a character for him (I had to guess at all his personality traits because I literally know nothing more than his first name), and I made him fall in love with my character, and we got married and everything lol...and then I tried to sleep, but couldn't for hours. I just laid there awake thinking about him, and eventually fell asleep in the middle of imagining scenarios where he'd ask me out.

Okay now I know I sound like a Stage 5 Clinger or a complete FREAK but here's the thing- I'M TERRIFIED OF HIM. Despite my impatience for the next class so I can get a chance to talk to him, I practically run AWAY after class so that it doesn't happen. He always takes his time leaving too, and seems to wait for me by the door, but I slip past and walk quickly out the door and don't look back.

He's younger than I am by 3 years, and I feel like I should be able to take charge of the situation and ask him out! I have been able to do that with ease for the last 7 years or so, and I haven't felt like such a lameass since HS. I'm a fairly outgoing, confident person- I don't know what the deal is. Any opinions? And please be nice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You say you don't really know him, yet you're planning your entire lives together.

    It seems like you're more in love with imaginary version of him that you created in your own mind. You've given him a personality that you created, instead of letting him show you it.

    Aren't you worried that you'll be disappointed IF you get to know him better (in real life).

    You're being extremely foolish and you're acting like a silly teenager. Control your impulses. When you find yourself daydreaming about him, stop, and tell yourself you don't want to live in a dream world anymore. If you stop daydreaming about him all the time, maybe it will be easier to ask him out.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      You're right, all the daydreaming and building up of this imaginary version of him is what's making me nervous to actually talk to him. I am worried to be disappointed, but I'm gonna take the steps to get to know him better and try not to have expectations that are too high. That wouldn't be fair to the poor guy.

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  • CassCass
    12 years ago

    You know what, I have done the same thing before! There was a great kid in my class who was nice, brave, funny, and handsome, and I just could not get over him! I went and made him on Sims too (because this happened quite recently) and made him my boyfriend. The real trouble started when I found out that he lived in my neighborhood! But I digress... Anyways, if you really are that crazy about him, try to become friends. That way you can spend more time with him and see if he really is perfect for you, and maybe you could get over your obsession faster if you are able to see him more often. See if you have the same interests as well.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      It actually is all over with now lol. Already! I totally read way too far into our so called "connection" that night we talked, or it must have been totally one sided, because he hasn't given me the least bit of attention since that night. He and I had a chance to talk alone once after that and he chose to walk by like I didn't exist, so, I got over it right then and there. Your crush sounds like it was based on some pretty solid good qualities, while mine was based on nothing more than his image. Had it had more substance to it, I probably wouldn't have been able to get over it so quickly. But hey it was fun while it lasted lol, it made me feel like a teen again to get a ridiculous overblown crush on a guy for no reason at all! =D

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    dappled changed his colour to blue!

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    hhahaha Orangemen

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    iPhone.

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    • dappled
      12 years ago

      lol :)

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    WTF Orangemen? Normalllll

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Orangemen? Am I missing something? lol

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Definitely I would get to know him more. One great thing in life is when you have excitement towered another. You never know what could be unless you go for it. Orangemen to be nervous.

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