Is it normal that i'm obsessed with arabic culture and music?

I love Arabic culture and music! I love Arabic countries! I want to visit a country in the MENA region (yes I know this can exclude Arab countries). I'm completely fascinated with them. I add random Arab guys on FB to discuss their cultures and observe them, but I have no interest in flirting or having sex chats with them - yet I can't shake the feeling this is odd somehow. I have a strong infatuation about Arab and Middle Eastern stuff that spills over to the people so I like to study them and gauge their reactions. I usually joke around about loving Arab men just to push people's buttons and see their reactions but I don't have interest in sleeping or flirting around like that. Yet it feels wrong and creepy. Am I digging myself a dangerous hole?

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61% Normal
Based on 38 votes (23 yes)
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  • thunor

    It's not very normal to be adding Arab people on FB, but it's fine to love the music and culture.

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  • coldturkey

    Orientalism

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  • RoseIsabella

    It's fine to be fascinated with a culture as well as it's food and music without being attracted to the men of that culture. Just don't pretend to be something you aren't, lying isn't cool.

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  • snarkygirl

    Bluurgh

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  • thegypsysailor

    How do you exclude Arab countries in MINA? All the countries on the Mediterranean Coast of Africa are Arab and most of those in the Middle East.
    I guess you could go to Israel, where only 1.4 million of 8 million are Arabs.

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