Is it normal that i'm not ugly, mean, or weird but guys don't like me?

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So I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss. Swear to god I'm not like ugly but I'm not gorgeous. I'm decent looking and well liked at my school. I'm on student government but I'm not a nerd. I'm athletic and normal and people think I'm funny. But no matter what I do guys just aren't into me. I've had guys like me in the past and I turned a few down but not recently. I just don't know if this is just me and something is wrong with me or other people feel me too.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Maybe you are too awesome and any guy that would approach you is scared of being let down because of the need to be with you?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    Guys seem to like me plenty... Then again, I like a lot of typically "male" things (guns, pussy, cars, the military etc.). Guys have an easy time relating to me and I have no trouble getting numbers or dates. I don't dress like a slut and I don't fuck just anyone, so it's not a "he only buys what's cheap" situation.

    The best I can tell you, from MY experience, guys like women who are easy to talk to and relate to. In my experience, being outgoing and having interests that many males can relate to is a great way to snag yourself a good one.

    In addition, don't be afraid to talk or act smart if you can do so in a manner that isn't condescending. Even if a guy does not agree with what you are saying, most guys do appreciate women who have original and intelligent thoughts and are not just into shoes and purses and shit.

    It takes time, though. It's really not a big deal. It happens to the best of us.

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    • londonbridge
      10 years ago

      Thanks! That's the annoying thing cause I have an older brother and I basically have the same interests as guys so they all just see me as one of the guys. Thanks though I appreciate the input!

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago

        Maybe find one you like and take it a step further, invite him out and be alone with him and all of that shizz. See where it goes.

        Guys are just as shy as girls when it comes to asking them out or romantic relations. Also, don't be afraid of rejection. I've gotten plenty of yeses but also plenty of nos.

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Wait for ittt...

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    • Terence_the_viking
      10 years ago

      Dary.

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  • q1w2e3
    10 years ago

    Be patient and wait for the right person.

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    • MisterDam
      10 years ago

      Or college

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    Maybe you don't have a personality that attracts easily.

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  • guest1455
    10 years ago

    My current girlfriend was the same way and for some reason no one ever tried dating her but I snagged her I call her a hidden diamond ;) so I feel very lucky and developed her own personality because of it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    They probably think you're a lesbian.

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    • lily1993
      10 years ago

      Thats crap cause many guys i know always say that,of a chick is hot and she's a lesbian,they will always try to make her change her mind :) so not a valuable excuse

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Send me your pic :)

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  • H8er
    10 years ago

    Sup ;)

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  • therugbyguy96
    10 years ago

    Just be patient hun the right guy will come along

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  • KaffeInjection
    10 years ago

    That is SOOOOOO MUCH NOT NORMAL!... You gotta' like be the FIRST human ever to feel that way like really, that is sooo uncommon... It's not like the next teenager ever experiences anything like that .. Noooo Nooo. .SOO NOT NORMAL YOOO!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Well you're an asshole

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      • KaffeInjection
        10 years ago

        Can i fart you in the face?

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    • Captain_Kegstand
      10 years ago

      Do you copy and past this crap? The comment on every post is just annoying.

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      • braintrip
        10 years ago

        he sounds like hes on meth in his comments dude, look how paranoid he sounds

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      • KaffeInjection
        10 years ago

        Oh yeah.. Because that comment is just soooo annoying... Yeaaaah.. It's not like it at all proves that there is many other girls out there who feels like that which makes it pretty "COMMON" and "NORMAL"...

        It's soooo annoying, and it's just not like that at allllllllllllllllll.

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        • Captain_Kegstand
          10 years ago

          Ugh

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          • Anime7
            10 years ago

            I know this is weird to say but I haven't seen you here in a long time. Good to see you again man. How has it been?

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            • Captain_Kegstand
              10 years ago

              Well I have been busy, got outta my crap job and into a good one, got my cheating ex out, and have in general just been making improvements lol! How about you?

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          • KaffeInjection
            10 years ago

            Neee nee noo noo noo!

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    • MisterDam
      10 years ago

      CDC warning: Having a Kaffle Injection may be hazardous to your health. In some cases it has been known to be fatal.

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    • guest1455
      10 years ago

      Haha feel better about yourself? Wooooo! You got attention and your funny. SOOOO FUUUUNY So So SOOOO Funny

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      • KaffeInjection
        10 years ago

        Yeah.. It's like soooooo funny.. I mean heck, how funny can it get?..

        I was like yeah, this is funny.

        Yeah and then i was like, this is totally not NORMAL MAN!..

        I was like, she'gotta be the first girl to ever feel like that ever maaan.. And i was like yeaaaaah, soo much not normal..

        Neee nee noo noo no.

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