Is it normal that i'm not sexually attracted to trans people?

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I'm bisexual and I'm getting really tired of people aggressively trying to dissect my sexuality and redefining it for me. Apparently calling myself bi, rather than "pan", means I hate trans people, yet at the same time I'm expected to spread my legs for every trans person who walks by lest I be considered transphobic.

I'm allowed to have quiet personal preferences about every single attribute of my prospective sex partners, except their genitals, the part I'm actually going to interact with if we have sex, I've heard "lesbians" talk at length about how they're attracted to women and not pussies, because a woman being attracted to pussy would be disgusting. Sorry, is that not what we spent several decades fighting for? Men don't have to write essays about how they like pussy before they're left alone, just women. God bless 2019.

I think I'm just done, y'all. Social justice has jumped the shark and it's not coming back. Be good to each other and ignore everything the SJ larpers say. I'd say SJWs can eat my bisexual ass, but I'd get no pleasure having my ass eaten by someone that legitimately stupid.

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SkullsNRoses

4 years ago

I’ve heard this non-sense before! I’ve also heard that calling yourself pansexual is “transphobic” as you shouldn’t see them as any different.

You hit the nail on the head when you said that social justice in 2019 has jumped the shark.

Attraction is not a choice and you are not obligated to find anyone attractive.

I could rant about this all day but the YouTuber Arielle Scarella made the videos “Why I’m Transphobic” and “Why I Won’t Apologise for Being Transphobic” that sum up the points nicely (she is not literally transphobic it’s click bait).

Don’t let these idiots get to you- coming out isn’t easy and you have every right to be a proud bi 💗💜💙

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- bigbudchonga
  
  4 years ago
  
  I agree Skulls. People should be allowed to be attracted to who they want without being told they're "wrong" for doing so.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Thanks. It means a lot. Most of the people in my day-to-day life either hate bi people for the old reasons (Adam & Eve, not Adam & Steve etc) or they hate bi people because of this new reason. It fucks me up. So, thanks. 💗💜💙
  
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  - leggs91200
    
    4 years ago
    
    When people are young, like less than 35 years old, the world does want to hound them about their choices (or not) in partners. No one is ever good enough no matter what.
    
    I am trans myself (mtf) and though I date bisexual women, I have come across some who just are not into TG. I just move on at that point.
    
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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

SJWs are jackasses. I don't think you should have to explain yourself to anyone. You like who you like, and that's that. You have a right to be attracted to whomever you so choose, and conversely you have a right to be unattracted to whomever you so choose. I honestly don't believe that transphobia exists with regard to sexual attraction. You have a right to your feelings, and the people getting all booty hurt about it are idiots.

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Boogienights

4 years ago

Why do you need a label at all is my first question? I ditched them years ago. I find it very odd the way SJW is used as a derogatory term in the USA. Its as if being self centred is more desirable for those who throw this acronym out.

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d0esnormalmatter

4 years ago

Hahahaha the fact that your not sure if it's normal is very telling. Don't you know that you have to like trans people? Its transphobic and you deserve to die because of it.

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megadriver

4 years ago

I may get hate, but I don't really care...

SJWs can suck my white, uncircumcised, European dick. You like what you like and you shouldn't be judged.

I'm a straight guy and if anyone hated me for not liking men, I'd tell them to fuck off and carry on with life.

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- leggs91200
  
  4 years ago
  
  I hate you for not liking men.
  
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  - megadriver
    
    4 years ago
    
    Hahahaha! I knew you had the hots for me... Nobody can resist that Balkan charm XD
    I'm cool with you. That savage delivery tho.
    
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ellnell

4 years ago

You are bisexual, not pansexual. I don't understand why people would harass you for this. By that logic every single straight person on earth are homophobic just because they're only attracted to the opposite gender, and all gay people are discriminating against and hating every single straight person because they don't want to have sex with them instead of the opposite gender. Makes no sense.

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bigbudchonga

4 years ago

Great post, OP. Yeah, they've gone off the deep end. The tide is turning against them though. By the normal person. they're becoming generally viewed as the nutty, puritan Christians 20/30 years ago were viewed.

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DIO

4 years ago

Why do they care what you like? As far as I know, you're still entitled to your own choices.
Just tell them to get fucked and go out with the person you like. They don't have to decide for you.

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Mammal-lover

4 years ago

Eh ignore people. I'm trans myself and it doesbt mean to shits to me if someone finds me attractive or unattrive since I'm trans

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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

I've got a friend who is a trans woman, but honestly I couldn't ever be attracted to a transgendered person, because I only use maple syrup on my pancakes, not that pancake syrup garbage. I prefer things that are natural, and organic if you get my drift.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Hahaha exactly. I wouldn't even date someone who'd had laser hair removal; the idea of dating someone who had a whole ton of plastic surgery and hormones is just a no-go for me. I like hairy, sweaty, natural bodies. Sue me!
  
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Clunk42

4 years ago

Calling them SJlarpers makes larpers sound bad; don't compare them. I completely agree with you. I am not even close to attracted to any transgenders, but I don't hate them. Even though it is morally wrong to be transgender, I still don't hate transgenders.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I don't even think it's morally wrong to be transgender, specifically, so long as it doesn't hurt anyone else (bathroom bills are debatable, especially since they affect much more than bathrooms). But for the most part I just want to be LEFT ALONE. It took me a long time to find and accept my sexuality and all of a sudden I'm getting forced back into the closet by self-entitled morons who think bisexual women are public property. They don't talk like this about straight men and women, just lesbians, bi women and gay men.
  
  And they have no defensible reason for doing this. As an aside, this question is at 50/50. Presumably you were the "yes" and the "no" was too cowardly to post.
  
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  - ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
    
    4 years ago
    
    "the "no" was too cowardly to post"
    
    I accidentally did that.... sorry 😞 it should be 100%, I wish they would let us undo our votes (at least once per post).
    
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    - DIO
      
      4 years ago
      
      You can undo your vote. Are you new here or what?
      
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      - ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
        
        4 years ago
        
        "You can undo your vote."
        
        😃 How I do the do which you speak of?
        
        "Are you new here or what?"
        
        Been here for about 6 years, took a 2 1/2 year hiatus. A bit has changed E.G I can't down vote comments but almost every one else can & there's no more profile pics.
        
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        4 years ago
        
        You can downvote or upvote comment. To cancel it just click on the on you cliked one more time.
        
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Good to know, this whole thing gets me so worked up. I had to switch schools as a kid because of homophobic bullying, but I've been "out" since I was about 9. Nowadays I don't tell people I meet that I'm bi because if I do, I'm made to listen to lectures about how I should be attracted to "girldick". So I guess that means I'm back in the closet. :/ :\ :/ I'm happy this site hasn't been hit by the woke brigade. I find it so weird and uncomfortable. It's not even like I'm a hot catch, you know?
      
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      - ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet
        
        4 years ago
        
        "I had to switch schools as a kid because of homophobic bullying"
        
        I had the luxury of being my school's boogie-man so I didn't have to worry about bullying that much.
        
        "I've been "out" since I was about 9."
        
        Been out since I found the word for what I was (A-sexual)
        
        "I'm happy this site hasn't been hit by the woke brigade."
        
        If anything it's mostly the opposite, it's also a bit of a Troll's nest.
        
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    I'm sorry you are going through this mess. Those people are moronic jerks!
    
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