Is it normal that i'm not sexually attracted to boyfriend?

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I've known my boyfriend for a long time and we have a great time together. We've had sex before, but I'm just not into it. When I see other guys and even girls, I can fantasize about being with them sexually, not romantically. It turns me on a great deal. When it comes to my boyfriend, I see him romantically and I love him, but I can't picture myself ever wanting to have sex with him again. Even with my greatest attempts to picture him and I having the raunchiest of sex, my mind floats off to some other person.

I know relationships aren't supposed to be based on sex, but it's quite important to have sexual chemistry.I'd never cheat on him,but I feel so bad that as long as I'm in this relationship I won't enjoy the sex. Is this normal?

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31% Normal
Based on 16 votes (5 yes)
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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    If you can't ever have sex with him again, the relationship will fall apart. Eventually you or he will cheat. Sorry to say it :(

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    The relationship is pretty much over the second I'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore. Romantic relationships are romantic for a reason. Otherwise, he's just your bestie.

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  • theaverageatheist
    11 years ago

    how good looking is he?? *_*

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  • iisabel
    11 years ago

    i just broke up with my girlfriend because i lost my sexual attraction for her and i couldn't stop thinking about other girls. it was really hard because i love her to death, and she loves me, but sex is important. if you cant figure out a way to make it work, i say you move on :/

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    friend zone

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