Is it normal that i'm not funny but think i am?

I try to make funny punny comments and it appears that one or two people do find them funny. It's always the same couple of people though and most of my humorous comments get a few thumbs down. Does that mean that I'm really not funny? Is it a sign that I should keep some of it to myself?

I'd like to be funny like Parrish, dappled, or flutterhigh but they are so amazing there's not anyone else at the same level as them. If I'm not as funny as them, like not even close then maybe I am just annoying people (hence the thumbs down).

What should I do?

Keep it to yourself. I hate people who think they're funny but aren't. 22
Only be funny with the two that think you're funny. 9
If you think you're funny, then you're funny. That's all that matters. 16
If you think you're funny but you're being thumbed down: you a troll. 5
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  • bananaface

    Firstly, there are a few members on here who make very good puns and who I absolutely love! A good pun can have me laughing for ages, so please don't give it up, puns really are great!

    But I understand, I deliberately avoid being funny on this site for that reason, along with many others. It's a shame though, because I feel like a huge part of my personality doesn't make it onto IIN.

    My advice, keep making puns, if they're good then you'll definitely get a thumbs up from me! Also, if you don't mind me asking, who are you? I have a feeling you may be on my list of the most hilarious pun makers, but I'm not sure:)

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    • Thank you, but I really am an amateur at funny.

      I don't mind you asking who I am. You can guess and I'll tell you if you're right or wrong but I don't think you know who I am. I'll even throw in a hint for you: I'm not a man.

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      • bananaface

        Well, I have a few vague ideas. I really don't want to guess now though, just in case I miss you out!

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        • Don't worry about it. I am used to being on the sidelines and missing out.

          Even if you are wrong it's still a compliment to the person who you guess, so guess away. :)

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          • bananaface

            I literally couldn't guess, mainly because I know I will feel extremely guilty if I mention someone who isn't you. Your clue didn't help though, since there a lot of users whose genders are ambiguous to me. I think you should give me a better clue:P!

            Have I ever had a conversation with you, besides this one?

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            • No. I've tried to strike up conversations with you but I think you sort of ignore me or don't even notice me. We are not chums so you don't have to worry about feeling guilty. My better clue... Someone else mentioned me here and it surprised me.

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    • chewy

      I am your favorite girl! :P

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  • lc1988

    Haha I post comments that make me laugh sometimes that go unnoticed. At least I get a chuckle! I think the funniest commenter is Parrish.

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    • anti-hero

      *blushes like a school girl*

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    As long as you entertain yourself, who cares! For example, my first comment on here I found quite amusing, and I was the ONLY one who felt that way! There will always be people like Spacey, Dappled, Flutterhigh, Parrish, Neuro, Sassyfrassylassie, djpatties, and Saycheese just to name a few! And there will be people like you and me!

    I think your funny, and you think your funny, so roll with it!

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  • yes as floydzie says as long as you pleasure yourself its ok

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    • I don't think she was trying to be skanky this time. lol

      It's ok?
      Well, ok then, as long it's OK then I'm ok. :P

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      • Compazine

        Floydz not being skanky? WHAT?!

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  • NotFloydzie

    You're not giving yourself enough credits. Who cares if you're not funny and annoying, as long as you amuse yourself.

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  • disthing

    Well I don't know who you are so I can't say if you're funny or not. Obviously you'll find your own sense of humour entertaining because it's your own sense of humour. Nothing wrong with laughing at your own jokes sometimes, even if you're the only one laughing :P

    Puns are hit and miss. They can be very witty, but if they come across as trying too hard, corny or facetious, they can piss people off. They can also be on a par with cracker jokes. The best ones seem to be SO BAD they're punderful.

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    • bananaface

      "punderful":D That made me laugh:L

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  • Dot123

    Never keep it to yourself. It is just the internet after all.

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  • howaminotmyself

    I have no idea how funny I am to other people. But I giggle constantly at my own musings. I think I just confuse people. Oh well.

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  • Rin✿

    I find a lot of people on here hilarious, but I don't always thumbs people up. Chances are more people like your jokes than you think.

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  • I amuse myself all the time, and say what I wish or what I think, especially in the chat room.

    I dont give a shit what others think of it.

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  • dappled

    I'm flattered to be listed with those two guys, especially as I don't often feel very funny. I'm not the same nationality as most people on this site and a lot of the things I find funny really don't travel well (Vic Reeves Big Night Out is a good example. People translate "surreal" as "weird". I know Monty Python travelled but I think VRBNO is a step too far).

    I never know what is going to make people on the site laugh. My favourite things go unnoticed and some of the most banal crap I've ever said in my life gets big whoops.

    I can say, though, that I think I know who you are and that you like puns as much as I do. I find you funny but I guess other people like puns less. Maybe it's about having multiple strings to your bow. I'm not going to analyse it too much, though, because as Stan Laurel says, that takes the fun out of it.

    While I'm on my soapbox, four of the funniest people on this site are female and not a single one of them gets the credit they deserve. Also, I think the site in general is filled with people who are funnier than average. It's a tough place to ply your comic trade.

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    • While you're on that soapbox, you should tell the good people of IIN who you'd nominate as one of your Funny Four.

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      • dappled

        Well, it's tricky because one of them doesn't want to be identified and another one shouts at me if I praise her too highly. In the first case, I think I'm allowed to say things she said anonymously. She was behind "Parrish! Shoot" and also when I was shaving a tiger motif into Spacey's fringe, she commented "kitty kitty bang bang" which I still love.

        The person who'd shout at me is funny in a way that is completely her own. She's in disguise at the moment and, again, I don't want to blow her cover. She's said things that made me think I'd endangered my health, I laughed so much.

        NoraBaker and Spaceface are both very funny (apart or together) but then NeuroNeptunian's little playlet about her marriage to ItDuz was one of the funniest things I've ever read on IIN (and even made it to the door of my fridge, high praise indeed). Floydzie has her moments too. It was a private conversation and I never share stuff like that without permission, but she said something very funny and self-deprecating to me just in the past week that keeps floating around my head.

        You have to watch wigsplitz too; she has a wicked sense of humour. I'm not sure who here remembers her but randomjelly made me snort orange juice through my nose regularly (she's missed). Same goes for carolann. Allistalla kind of amuses me too, in the same way AnneEatzUrHeart used to; it's too manic to be part of, you just have to sit back and watch it. Plus there are people who aren't as well-known yet that I have very funny conversations with (including one who has already replied to this). There are also a handful of English females who I appreciate very much because they're funny in an English way and I miss that sometimes when they're not around. In fact, one has just come back after a long absence so yay to that.

        Then there are people who are generally serious but not always. Avant-Garde, TerryVie, and cookiesaregreat can all be very funny when they want to be. And I wish bananaface wouldn't avoid being funny. She was really funny first time around on the site and it'd be nice to see that again.

        P.S. When I said I thought I knew who you were, I was wrong. The person I was thinking of is a male pun-merchant.

        P.P.S. I know I said four, but when I got to thinking about it, I started remembering all the things people have done which amused me. :)

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        • flutterhigh

          Great, now it's another IIN shout-out thread you sunuvabitch. Also, you forgot equanimity and thisissomuchfun. Am I right or am I right?

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          • dappled

            This is almost as bad as that time Hitler said: "Two options. Should we kill the Jews or should we kill the Jews?"

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          • It's really not a big deal or necessary. He tells me enough outside of IIN how much he loves and adores me... And thinks I'm funny.

            So I get enough of his shout-outs already. I like that he feels comfortable giving them to others too; it's part of the reason why I love him.

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        • iEatZombies_

          Oops, nevermind.
          =D

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        • shuggy-chan

          i must be boring i see, humph <_<

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          • dappled

            But Shuggykins, you are not a girl. :P It was a girls list. Actually, wait a second. Doesn't "chan" mean female? Shouldn't you be Shuggy-kun or Shuggy-sama? Is there something you are hiding from us?

            I knew it! I knew I wasn't gay for liking you in the special way that I do.

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        • bananaface

          Thanks, it's nice to hear that:). Tbh, I wish I would stop avoiding it too. The longer I'm here the more reserved I seem to get, which seems a bit backward:/.

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          • dappled

            Hehe, I remember your first time around you talking about how you chose your name and saying you didn't even like bananas as much as apples and so you should have been appleface. I don't know why it made me laugh (or why I remember it now), but it did. :)

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        • dappled

          ...aaaaaand I forgot charli.m, who was making me laugh just a few hours ago. I suck!

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          • Thank you for indulging us, you are so gracious. There will always be ones that you forgot but you don't suck.

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    • anti-hero

      I don't deserve to be mentioned in the same group as you and flutterhigh.

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      • dappled

        Of the three of us, you got first billing. You've only been here two months and the person who wrote the story is someone who knows me better than anyone on IIN. Trust me, you've been paid a compliment. And it's deserved :)

        P.S. Tomorrow, flutterhigh and I will knock on your front door and we shall have machine guns. Step lively!

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        • anti-hero

          I wish I knew who made the poll. Thank you I take it as a great honor to be shot at by the likes of you.

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          • dappled

            It was SassyFrassyLassie who was, for most of this year, pretty much my girlfriend. At least I made her list, though. I didn't even mention her on mine. Love, eh? :)

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            • anti-hero

              She sent me a message telling me it what her. I have talked to her before. She always says such good things about you.

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    • iEatZombies_

      Aw, dappled. I had no idea you thought I was so funny.
      =P

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      • dappled

        :O Like Shuggy, you're not allowed on the list either because it was a female-only list.

        Hmm... this is where you tell me of your femaleness, isn't it, and I look a bit stupid. :/

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        • iEatZombies_

          Hahahah! XD
          It so happens I AM female.

          But it's not your fault. I don't tell many people. So you can't be stupid.

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          • dappled

            Even as I was typing it, I was thinking, "I bet she's female. I bet she's female". Blah me! :/

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  • 800imawesome

    Dont listen to the haters. The only person you need to amuse in the life is yourself (thats actually a saying that I made) ;)

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  • misca

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

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  • plum6

    who cares, as long as you are entertaining yourself and are true to what you are saying it was worth it

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  • anti-hero

    OP I apologize, I thought you were someone else.

    I don't deserve to be mentioned in same group as dappled or flutterhigh.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Haha, if feel like that sometimes. It's because I have the most ridiculous, goofy, sometimes dark sense of humor :D And yet, the things that most people find funny, I think are annoying.

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  • Rin✿

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gfhM4_ogwo

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  • TreeGo

    It is normal. Everyone has a unique sense of humor. Some people like sarcasm while others enjoy a more blunt approach. You can't please everyone.

    Personally, I find that I can make a lot of black people laugh. Whenever I am talking to a black person, they seem to find me funny. Of course, this might just mean that black people are quicker to laugh or maybe it's just those specific black people I have met.

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  • JustDave

    Post whatever you want. No one will know your true identity. Really, there are people on here who admit to fucking their pets and playing with their own feces so why concern yourself with whether your posts are funny? Just post it.

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  • Finding_Peace_In_A_Mad_World

    I think you're funny :3

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