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8 years ago I fell in love with a guy and we got engaged the relationship fell apart and I left him! He was devestated a year later I met abd married another man and now have three kids with him . I see my x occasionally and he now has three kids ! I want him so bad and miss his smell his face and laugh is it normal how I feel?
Yeah, it's normal to miss somebody, but you had your chance then, and you decided to throw it away. I think maybe you jumped into a new relationship too soon. Thats probably why you miss him so much, but what's their to do now? Are you gonna divorce the new guy(your husband)? Keep in mind your three kids. How will this damage/effect them? Plus, it seems like your ex has already started a new life. So... do you think he would wanna be with you again? He could already be happy and satisfied with the way things are right now. He might finally be completely over you. When you guys cross paths with eachother, did he give any indication whatsoever that he still has feelings for you?
I think you need to think all this through. But remember how it's gonna effect not just you, but your current husband, and your three children as well. And don't forget how this is gonna effect your ex (if you ever decide to make a move) and his current wife, and three children also.
Should have let the guns cool before jumping in bed with someone right after.
All I can say is you should have thought about that before you got married and had children. All your gonna end up doing is destroy innocent lives because your selfishly allowing these feelings to destroy what you created and entered into. the grass ain't always greener and you split with your ex for a reason so surly that's enough. If you were destined to be together then you wouldn't have split up. His your ex for a reason. You chose a different path so don't let the past destroy what you have now.
He isn't happy I can tell wen I c him ! My marriage is at breaking point because of this I don't think I could ever be happy without him by me every night! I can't be a good mother if I'm not happy with myself!!
Stop seeing your ex if it illicits those kinds of thoughts & feelings. Not fair to your husband and innapropriate.
Uhm NO. If you don't love your husband enough to not notice the opposite sex at all then you shouldn't be getting married.