Is it normal that i'm mad at him for this?

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So this morning my boyfriend texted me and said he had a surprise for me (we planned on hanging out today). He said he's really excited for me to come over and see what he did for me. So all day I've been waiting for him to text me saying he's done. I was getting a little worried that we wouldn't hang out, so I asked if he was still planning on it. He said "yes, I promise". 6 hours later, he says he's done. I say great, when can I come over? He said "forget about today, I'm gona take a nap"
I tried not to get upset with him, I said ok, have a nice nap. But I am kind of sad...is this a good reason to be hurt? Or am I overreacting

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  • Eas1206
    10 years ago

    Dick move on his part. Maybe you should promise him a great blowjob or anal or something after work one day, and then just take a nap instead.

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    • ifonlyuknew247
      10 years ago

      That is a great suggestion! I'm using that next time someone does this to me.

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    • jellyjelly
      10 years ago

      ew

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    it's not a good reason to be hurt but you're not overreacting either. i want to punch people who change their minds all of sudden, so you eventually stay at home. just tell him that it annoyed you, but speak calmly. (and dont punch him in the face. that's what I want to do to people. haha).

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    That's pretty strange that he'd build you up like that but then decided to take a nap instead of hanging out.

    How long have you been together for? Not long I'm guessing. And probably not much longer either.

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    • jellyjelly
      10 years ago

      About 9 months. He just changes his mind a lot.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Wow, I really do not know what to say, which is strange for me. LOL
    Sounds a bit cruel to me. Good luck with this guy; tread cautiously, perhaps he's not running on all cylinders?

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  • MissesAnonymous23
    10 years ago

    Hmm... That's really weird that he would make you wait all day for him just so he could build it up to a nap... I'm not trying to be negative, but is there any reason why he would try to keep you away from his house all day? I would talk to him about it. It sounds super sketchy. Good luck!

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  • alacazam
    10 years ago

    GROW UP!!! Some people actually have REAL problems.

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    • jellyjelly
      10 years ago

      I didn't think this was a website for people with problems. I thought it was people wondering if something was normal or not. Thanks for setting me straight.

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      • alacazam
        10 years ago

        Yes it's normal by the way; but jeez... relax.
        p.s. if you're worried about something being normal... it's a problem.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Sounds like he was fucking a different girl and needed to keep you away.

    Then when he finished with her he wanted his nap.

    He never intended you to come over he just needed some lame excuse for you to not show up.

    Anyway, you should of texted him back saying

    "Enjoy your nap honey, I'm going out to fuck some new guy, later."

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    I'd not accept shit like that. All day you waited around for him and had high hopes of something special and he just blows you off!?

    Then again I have zero tolerance for people that cancels things in the very last fucking minute since I've had tons of people doing this to me.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    So what was the big surprise?

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  • YourMomSaysHello
    10 years ago

    He's being a tease. It's a good way to keep you on the edge, to want him more. Your bf has shit figured out. Clever guy.

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