Is it normal that i'm inlove withsomeone who is 38 years older than me

this person is famous,but i know him in person,i'm 18 and he is 56.i can't stop thinking about him,even though he has a daughter who is 13 years older than me,should i get help?is it normal?

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43% Normal
Based on 28 votes (12 yes)
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  • TrustMeImLying

    I wonder what it'd be like to have a stepmom who was younger than me. I might shrivel and die from the awkwardness. Or be proud that I was in a soap opera.

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    • thegypsysailor

      Or you might try being happy for your parent who is happy. Not everything is about YOU and how it affects YOU!

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      • TrustMeImLying

        Do you even listen/read to what you say sometimes? Forget the fact that you're having a visceral reaction, for obvious reasons, to a rather jestful comment of mine... but where do you muster the balls and severe lack of self-awareness to tell anyone that second line, when you yourself are so self-obsessed that you're incapable of accommodating any opinions that are even slightly different to your own or what you've lived/experienced? I mean holy shit man, I actually had to stare at your username for a few secs to make sure it wasn't a satirical comment from a troll account because I couldn't believe how madly hypocritical it was.

        I'm not implying I'm a saint. I have hypocritical moments too, but surely not of such sheer magnitude. I'm usually able to resist calling out people here, but that "advice" coming from THE gypsysailor just blew my mind.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I vote for shrivel, but vomit instead of die.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls

    That's a gigantic age gap there. Definitely just realize this and move on.

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  • snarkygirl

    Eew who cares how he is in bed if he's old and gross.

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  • Doesn't sound like there's much of a future in it for you, but if you just want to have a fling, why not? Of course, he should be single and available (not to mention interested in you) or you may get into some trouble.

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  • daydreamer394

    It's very normal.

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  • Derpity

    Is it like an actor or celebrity? Because my friends and I (18 yr olds), have a "sugar daddy" list of all the actors way older than us who we would still totally shag if that was ever a reality. *cough*Anthony Head*cough*
    As for IRL, there are older men who I totally look up to and really like and think that they are still quite attractive for their age. However, I do not let any feelings whatsoever develop and would never actually obsess or act upon feelings.

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    • januarycurse

      haha sugar daddy but that would imply you like older guys for their money not for their wisdom, experience, intelligence, maturity, charm, wit, and charisma

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  • RoseIsabella

    *searches for fake beard*

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  • When I was 18, I loved fooling around with guys in their 40s and 50s. There's nothing like experience. But I never latched onto them.

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    • CountessDouche

      The gypsy sailor?

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