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I am bi-sexual, and I hear it often that it's fine. What no one knows is that I have a sort of... "Shrine" of her. We've known each other for 6 years and she knows about my sexuality. But she has no clue I'm in love with her. What should I do? Should I let it go? Should I tell her???
| Let it go | 4 | |
| MOVE ON ALREADY DAMNIT!!! | 4 | |
| Talk more to me about it | 8 | |
| Tell her | 21 | |
| Idk, i'm just a random guy/girl | 7 |
First, how old are you two? If you are teenagers, neither of you may grow up to be bi-sexuals. I know that sounds unlikely, but trust me, there's a chance you may grow up top be straight...or not.
If you guys are adults, do you know if she is bi? Talk to her about such things. See what happens.
I know I'm not saying anything you don't already know, but you might jeopardize your friendship. You should decide if it's worth it or not, but if she's clearly straight then the odds aren't in your favor.
Another important question you should ask yourself: Am I in love or do I just like her? There is a huge difference between the two and people who have never been in love confuse them all the time and piss me the fuck off. Thankfully, there's an easy way to understand what your case is. If you've never been in love, or you're not sure whether you were in love or not, then you haven't been in love. You would know if it was love, it's not even close to liking someone. So do you like her or are you in love with her?
If you just like her it really isn't worth it possibly ruining your friendship, but if you're in love with her then there's no way I could discourage you. My advice would be being subtle instead of telling her straight away. It would give her more time to think and sort out her feelings for you, rather than being freaked out about you telling her you love her out of nowhere.
Don't take anything that I type personal or rude, it's just my way of typing btw.
1.) It seems as if she's bi-sexual also, but I can't exactly smooth it out by the way she acts.
2.) I am indeed in love. I have asked myself that question plenty of times because I thought I was paranoid.
Just do little things to show her your feelings. I don't know what you could do cause I don't know what your current relationship's like but I'm sure you could think of something. Just give her some time to process the things you're doing and think about how she feels about you. Give it like a month or so and then tell her. Waiting won't do anything for you. Just show your feelings and then comfront. I really hope this works out for you! :)