Is it normal that i'm in love with my father?

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My father was my best friend after the death of my mother, he support in everything i wanna do it. he explain to me everything in life. i'm very attached to him since i was 15. Since that i never stop comparing my boyfriends to my father attitude and the relation end up in a very short period. Now i'm 20 still virgin coz i can't trust any man. Espacially that my feeling to my father is increasing till the feel that i'm in love with him without his known. i'm always dreaming that he should be the first man that i should make love to him, but i'm affraid to ask him this??? what u suggest?

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    first of all, sorry for your loss. i can see you're very close with him, and that's totally fine. however, if you're attracted to him sexually or romantically, that's not normal or healthy. i'd suggest talking to a counselor about this. also, don't worry about being a 20 year old virgin. you're not old yet..far from it.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    This is not normal, and if true you are a very large temptation, that no father should have to fight off! Yes it's normal to compare others to your dad, but you should seek out someone that lives up to that high scale, not take your desires out on your father, for he can only resist you for so long, everyone has week moments in their lives, but should not always act on them! Good luck with your choices!

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    If this is real, I don't think it's ok. You should leave him alone and find sex somewhere else.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    ^pow!

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