Is it normal that i'm in love with my ex-teacher?

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Well, I know this is stupid but I have to ask it.
When I was 15 I was in love with one of my teachers. But it was love, real love. He began to like me when I met him better; I was fascinated about all the things he knew. After that year, he didn’t give me classes, but I kept seeing him in the corridors or in other classes, so I was happy just knowing that he was fine.
But when I was 17 he moved to another school and I was so sad. I lost my motivation completely and never saw him again. Now, I’m in another country, about to turn 19 and I’m missing him so much. I’ve met a lot of good boys in college, and my friends always tell me “don’t you like him? He’s so cute!” but I can’t get my teacher out of my head. He was different, he was mature and we share the same interests, and no one has made me feel this way. Some nights I remember him and begin to cry.
I don’t know what to do, I want to see him again and tell him my feelings but I don’t know if he feels the same way as I do... I think he doesn't feel the same. What do I do?

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  • dontgiveup:)
    12 years ago

    I agree with the person above!:) go for it! Look for him on Facebook or something, send him an email! Tell him how you feel. You only live once, make it count!

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    • Ilian12
      12 years ago

      Thanks! I really appreciate your comments ;)

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    Your old enough, go for it! Chances are he probably had a thing for you too but was principled enough not to act on it. It sounds like he enjoyed the time you spent together too. If you don't at least see how he feels you will always wonder and probably regret it. The worst that could happen is that he nicely let's you know that he's not interested and then you can have closure and move on. The other scenario is that he feels similarly and you could be with the man you've always loved, your first choice.

    Remember, in life you gotta risk it to get the biscuit.

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    • Ilian12
      12 years ago

      You're right, thank you so much! ^^

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  • funnymoments
    10 years ago

    so what are you waiting for ...tell him because we are going to die very soon

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well no shit you should be fascinated at what he knows, hes a teacher. But ew I don't see how people can fall in love with their teacher, move on.

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    • Legion
      12 years ago

      I liked one of my former teachers, she was 24, and i was 17. she was real nice to me and we shared some similar interests. i knew it couldn't happen though, cause of the whole student/teacher thing.

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