Is it normal that i'm in love with my best friend.

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Simple I'm female, and my best friend is male. We flirt a lot! He kisses my cheek and forehead, holds my hand, puts his arm around me, and tells me constantly how beautiful I am. How could I not fall in love with him? We haven't said anything to each other about feelings. Well I haven't said anything to him about my feelings, and I don't know whether I should or not. I don't want to get rejected by him. and he's my BEST friend ever. I don't know what I would do if I lost him. I want to tell him buuut I'm really lost and confused and scared. What should I do?

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Based on 54 votes (49 yes)
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  • acidlor
    13 years ago

    I think that's a really sweet story. I've been in the same boat. I know how it goes. I think that if you never take the risk, you'll never know what good could come out of it. Make a list of the pros and cons of asking him out. If one side out weighs the other, then that's your answer. Remember, if you never ask, the answer will always be "no".

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  • crolobasher
    10 years ago

    if guys tell their feelings and get rejected the girl will leave them, but if a girl does it even if you get rejected he wont let you go :3

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  • kev775
    13 years ago

    Gabriell is right he probably feels the same way you do and like you is too worried to say so in my opinion go for it or forever wonder what might have happened

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  • stonecutters93
    13 years ago

    I've been in the same boat. I say you tell him, to me one of the worst feelings in the world is wondering "what if". Explain to him that if he doesn't feel the same way you do then you want to stay best friends, and maybe one day he'll realize how much he does care for you. If you were meant to be together it's going to happen!

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  • Gabriell
    13 years ago

    Tell him! Boys are emotional horndogs, he probaply feels the same.

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  • *Cutiepie;
    13 years ago

    tell him! i think he feels the same way back!

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  • badboy4u247
    13 years ago

    i think by the things he does he might also love you but he's afraid....it might be time to take things to another level??...good luck...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Tell him how you feel!

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