Is it normal that i'm in love with my..

I'm in love with my best friend who has a gf but he also knows that I love him but he remains to be my bff. I mean we understand each other better than anyone else. We end each others sentences. The problem is that he asked me out last summer and I really didn't give him an answer because I thought I didn't see him in that way until a couple of months after he got a gf and I was really jealous. And it's been almost over a year and I'm still not over him. I've tried to end my friendship with him so many times, but I keep on failing. An incident had occurred when his gf was mad at me b/c I called him on his bday at midnight. And I vowed that I wouldn't be his friend until he was overly emotional and we both cried ='( And now we're back to being friends. And now I just want to ignore him b/c I want these feelings to go away. But I still don't have the will power to do so. Even though he has a gf I feel like he still has some feelings for me. The way he looks at me..I just don't know what to do. I'm open to any advice.

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  • hiimacoolcat

    You are an idiot. Just because you are jealous he has a girlfriend does not mean you should try to end your friendship with him, on his birthday no less! I think you don't really deserve him as a boyfriend or a friend.

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    • lustforlife

      I didn't tell him that on his bday, this was a week later when that incident happened. And it's not my fault that his gf feels threatened, I mean he's my bff for Christ's sake!

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  • mike20993

    If u strip in front of him he will like it and leave his gf for u

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  • normal!!bs!!!

    i would kick the girlfriend of him

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    • lustforlife

      haha i wish i could too. but i can't.

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  • keep trying
    someday u might catch him

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  • Onllyandreew

    I have the same situation haha.

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  • uNoRmAl

    same with me... right now im just going along with it... like i still want us to be friends and i wouldnt want to lose him... im happy for him (or at least thts whut i say)

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    • lustforlife

      Sigh.. Me too =/

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  • reillyhawkins

    sounds to me like if you keep going the way you're going you might end your friendship on a bad note. on the other hand, and i think this is more likely, you will end up together very soon, like within the next 2 months, and probably stay together for a relatively long time. sounds like he likes you, you obviously like him, and his gf is only there because you said no when he asked you out. oh, and its unlikely that these feelings will go away, especially if you see him all the time, and hes with another girl. it is quite a normal thing to happen, that best friends fall in love with each other. when a girl and a guy hang out a lot and discover that they have a lot in common, they usually end up together.

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    • lustforlife

      I really don't know. I hung out with him yesterday too and all the feelings came rushing back once again. I hadn't spoken to him for a week and then he just shows up.

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