Is it normal that i'm in-love with a man and i'm only into chicks :(

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I have always known that I love woman .. But since I was 15 I have been in-love with one man and I'm 22 now ... I even have a family with him, we have a beautiful daughter .. But truth is as much as I love him ... I don't wanna have sex with him or sometimes I don't even wanna kiss him because I'm not phyicaly attracted to men ... But he does mean so much to me .. It's hard to deal with because I think about woman all the time :( ... What does everyone think ?!?!

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  • mcdonaldjunkie
    13 years ago

    Maybe you aren't really "in love" with this man. When you are in love with someone you will find them sexually attractive. Not to say that you don't really care about him, just not "in love" with him.

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    • waterfalls02
      13 years ago

      true

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  • rak
    13 years ago

    I think u should try to pray to god

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  • Fall4DaEyez
    13 years ago

    @Huymansdream that's not my thing : /

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  • Fall4DaEyez
    13 years ago

    @Tamira your right thanks for understanding :)

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  • Fall4DaEyez
    13 years ago

    @ diomandback .. Not ... Btu I still do it for love ...

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  • HuysmansDream
    13 years ago

    You can ask him if he wants to sleep with 2 girls (a 3 persons thing), I think lots of mens dream about that. You could be both satisfied...

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  • Tamira
    13 years ago

    I can understand where you come from, but why did you not talk wiht oyur husabn before seven years are over?
    My boy friend and OI both know that I do not like sex at all (no sexual desire, neither for men or women) even though I like romantic and such and we talked about this from the begtinning...
    Love is a lot of things, not only sex and from what you said i believe yo udo, indeed love your husband. The main problem now is, that telling him about you feel now, if oyu never tlaked with him before wil lbe very hard.
    I still think you should do so and that you should work out together where you want to go from there.

    good luck!

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  • tutyit
    13 years ago

    U suck and that poor man is being punched in his face by you doing this to him...its stupid!

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    That IS the hard part...but the longer you wait, the harder it gets.

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  • Diamondback
    13 years ago

    Do you have sexual feelings for this guy?

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  • Fall4DaEyez
    13 years ago

    McDonaldJunkie I have honestly had a friend tell me the same ... But on and off for seven years I have been with this man ... Not because I just care ... But because he is my world .. I am in-deed in- love with him ... And that's why I force myself to sleep with him .. Because wat makes him happy makes me happy .. You no : / it's confussing I no ..

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  • Fall4DaEyez
    13 years ago

    Thanks Mel !! Your absolutly correct ... I just have to chose what's right : / that's the hard part :(

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    Very interesting, Im Bi...So I can KIND OF relate. Its impossible to turn off your sexual desires. Im engaged to a wonderful man, but do still crave women. Its a difficult situation to deal with. Have you told him this? Do you talk openly about your feelings? If not, you should. Honestly, its not fair to him for your relationship to be only emotional. Its also not fair to you, to be physical with someone youre not sexually attracted to & not enjoying it. You obviously have three choices, stay with him & have things remain as they are. Leave him and go your seperate ways (obv still being great friends & parents) OR work out an agreement that you makes you both happy...such as a sexually open relationship. Good luck.

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