Is it normal that i'm in love with a gay boy?

he knows he's gay. I know he's gay. he's come out to me. yet I talk to him everyday and I can't help it. he is sweet, cute, everything I could ever want, yet gay, and i'm a girl. he tells me that he loves me on a daily basis but I know he probably doesn't want me that way.
by the way, I in no way want to like him. I just do, because im human and my stupid brain and genitalia make my decisions for me.

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  • EccentricM8

    Your emotions are normal, but of course, you should deal with them.

    I recommend watching the film Naomi and Elys No Kiss Zone. It deals with your exact situation. A girl loves her best friend that is gay, and he tells her he loves her, and it explores the themes of dealing with those emotions and struggles.

    Good luck to you.

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    • GerardWay

      thank you so much for the suggestion! will definitely check that out

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  • kariann789

    I was madly in love with my best friend in high school, even after he came out I still couldn't stop feeling that way, hell I even got jealous when I saw him with guys.

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  • strangethingshappen

    It sucks that he's gay but sadly you can't change that. I know we are human & can't help developing feelings for another but I'd say us girls feel more with our heart, not our brain or genitals. :)

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  • ThankYouAndScrewYou

    How? He literally finds you more disgusting than packing shit into his peehole. How exactly does that mentality turn you on?

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    • strangethingshappen

      Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. Who says he finds her disgusting? We could say similar to a heterosexual. How the fuck does sticking your throbbing, slug looking cock into a girls shitty asshole or bacteria filled vagina turn you on. See? Sometimes its not all about lust mate, there can be love involved. I'm not even a guy & I know this. Such ignorance -_-

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